You're certain your dog adores you. You're probably right. After all, they’re called "man's best friend" for a reason!
But how can you be sure? More importantly, how does your dog express their love? Canine behaviourist Dr Emma Scales-Theobald provided insight into how dogs communicate affection, helping pet owners better understand their furry companions.
11 signs your dog truly loves you
To decode your dog’s emotions, Dr Scales-Theobald identified 11 specific behaviours that indicate affection. If your pup exhibits these signs, there's no doubt they love you!
1. Seeking physical affection
What better way to strengthen a bond than through cuddles? Dogs seek out affection to feel closer to their humans. Petting them not only deepens your connection but also releases oxytocin, often called the "love hormone", which fosters trust and bonding. Dopamine is also released during these interactions, promoting happiness and reducing stress.
2. Nudging
Does your dog nudge you with their nose or push your arm when you stop stroking them? This is their way of saying, Don’t stop! Dr Scales-Theobald explains that some dogs do this in a playful, insistent manner, while others are more subtle. Responding to these nudges reinforces your bond and reassures your dog of your affection.
3. Sitting next to you
Does your dog plop down beside you for no apparent reason? This is a pure expression of trust and love. Whether they sit close, lean against you, or simply stay nearby, their choice of proximity is a clear sign of attachment.
4. Putting their weight on you
If your dog leans against you, rests their head in your hand, or even sits on your feet, they seek comfort and security. Dr Scales-Theobald notes that in some cases, this behaviour is also a way of claiming you as their human, especially when they choose your shoes as their favourite seat!
5. Asking for belly rubs
When a dog rolls onto their back and exposes their belly, it typically signals trust. However, this gesture can also indicate submission or anxiety. To tell the difference, observe their body language: a relaxed posture and wagging tail mean they’re seeking affection, while pinned-back ears and a tucked tail suggest nervousness.
6. Following you everywhere
A dog that follows you from room to room, sometimes called a "Velcro dog", is deeply attached to you. While this devotion is endearing, excessive clinginess may indicate separation anxiety. If your dog appears distressed when you leave, consulting a trainer or behaviourist may help.
7. Sharing toys
Toys are among your dog’s most prized possessions (aside from treats, which they probably won’t share!). If your pup brings you a toy, they’re not just inviting you to play, they’re showing trust and affection.
8. Initiating play
A dog that bows playfully and wags their tail is inviting you to join in the fun. Engaging in playtime strengthens your bond and provides essential physical and mental stimulation.
9. Jumping on you
While jumping can be an annoying habit, it’s often a dog’s instinctive way of greeting and expressing excitement. Since this behaviour can be problematic, especially with larger dogs, it’s best to train them to greet you more calmly.
10. Sleeping near you
Dogs feel most vulnerable when they sleep, so if your pup snoozes close to you, it's a sign of deep trust. Even if house rules prevent them from sleeping in your bed, their preferred sleeping spot can reveal how secure they feel with you.
11. Licking you
Dogs often lick as a sign of affection, but excessive licking can also signal anxiety or discomfort. If your dog’s ears are pinned back or their body seems tense, they may be stressed rather than affectionate.
How to show your dog love in return
Now that you know the signs of canine affection, you can respond in ways that make your dog feel loved in return. And don't underestimate the power of words! A study by Canine Cottages found that a dog's heart rate increases by 46.2% when they hear "I love you." So, go ahead, tell your furry friend how much they mean to you!
