Returning to work with a puppy

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Hi everyone, I’ve had my little Bella for 4 days now; she’s 2 and a half months old. She’s like my shadow. As soon as I move around the house, she’s right behind me; she whines if she loses sight of me or barks (she’s so tiny but her voice really carries already! 🤦🏻‍♀️)

I’m heading back to work soon, leaving at 6:30 am and getting back around 1:45 pm. Aside from the toilet accidents, I’m really anxious because I don’t think she’ll cope. She has toys, of course, but that won’t be enough. I really don’t know what to do.

Thanks in advance for any advice 🙏

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    I personally insist that the breeders keep the puppy with its mum for an extra month...

    Don't you have any other pets?

    You need to make sure she feels safe in a quiet little corner of her own (try putting a cardboard box over her bed: having a "roof" over their heads makes them feel secure)

    Leave the radio on quietly in the background

    Wear the puppy out and feed her before you leave: time goes by much faster when they’re sleeping and digesting

    (Bichons don't tend to be anxious types for very long, so don't worry too much)

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    Hello, It’s completely normal for a young puppy to whine and bark at the start. Bella has only just been separated from her mum and littermates and is in a completely new environment where you are the closest thing she has to a familiar anchor. To teach a puppy how to be on their own, you need to take it step by step. Start by teaching her to stay alone in a room for 5, 10, or 15 minutes. Then, build up to leaving her home alone while you take the bins out, then while you pop out to the shops, then for an hour, and so on. To make sure things go smoothly, she needs something to keep her occupied, which you are already providing. In practice, you can say "goodbye" and "hello" when you leave and come back; the idea is to establish a ritual so she understands that when "this particular thing" happens, it means you’re going away but that you always come back. You shouldn't sneak out behind her back, as this is likely to increase her stress. If you feel that she won't be able to cope with the separation just yet, you could ask a relative, a friend, or a trusted neighbour to pop in and keep her company for a little while. You could also leave her with a pet sitter every now and then. However, the ultimate goal is still to teach her to stay home alone calmly. In any case, this is perfectly normal puppy behaviour and should settle down over time. I hope these tips help you reach that goal. Best of luck, Quitterie
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