Advice for a first-time owner

If it’s mainly the shedding that puts you off, you might want to look into a breed that doesn’t lose its hair (but do budget for professional grooming).

I’m struggling to visualise how big 3 square metres is; it seems quite small to me (though it depends on the size of the dog). There’s no problem leaving a dog in a dedicated room for a few hours, but they need to be used to it, have access to it even when you’re at home, have had plenty of exercise beforehand, and have something to keep them occupied just in case.

I’d say that if you get a dog, you’ll have your work cut out for you in the first year getting them used to your rules and adjusting to having a new little life to look after (it’s a bit like when a new baby arrives—it turns things upside down, but you adapt). So, for the first year, avoid any spur-of-the-moment trips to theme parks (just make sure you plan ahead before going).

Hi there,

It’s perfectly normal to have these doubts: a dog is a 10 to 15-year commitment, a significant expense, and means planning around holidays and sometimes dealing with expensive vet bills. It requires time every single day, even when you’re exhausted. And with three children, let’s be honest: in many families, it’s often one parent who ends up doing the lion’s share of the work.

But the bond that is built with and around a pet can be truly incredible.

The most important thing before deciding is to have a very clear idea of what to expect by choosing a breed that fits your lifestyle and your expectations.

Pet sitting could be a great way to help you visualise the responsibilities involved before you commit.

Have a lovely day,

Maëlla