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Please tell me how to train a dog to sit to play with someone and not bark always

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  • jseraphin
    Jseraphin
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    Hi!

    Thanks for getting in touch!

    Ok - so for training a dog to sit, the best method is using a treat to lure them into the sitting position, and to reward them once they do. Here's a step-by-step guide:

    Step 1: Use a treat to lure

    • Hold a treat close to your dog's nose.
    • Slowly move the treat upward and slightly over their head.
    • As they look up, their bottom should naturally lower to the ground.

    Step 2: Add the command

    • The moment your dog's bottom touches the ground, say “Sit” in a clear, firm, but friendly voice (you can also add a hand signal to go with it).

    Step 3: Reward and praise

    • Immediately reward them with the treat and verbal praise like “Good sit!”
    • Some dogs also respond well to petting or enthusiastic encouragement.

    Step 4: Repeat and reinforce

    • Practice multiple times in short sessions (5–10 minutes).
    • Gradually phase out the treat by rewarding only every few times.
    • Try practicing in different locations to reinforce the command in various situations.

    It's the easiest trick to teach!

    Now for barking, it's a little more complicated. Barking is a natural behaviour in dogs but excessive barking can be an issue. Here's what you need to do if you feel your dog is barking too much:

    Step 1: Identify the trigger

    Dogs bark for different reasons, such as:

    • Alert barking (at people, noises, or animals)
    • Attention-seeking barking
    • Boredom or loneliness
    • Fear or anxiety
    • Excitement barking

    Understanding the reason helps determine the best solution.

    Step 2: Avoid reinforcing barking

    • Don’t yell; this may sound like barking to your dog and encourage them.
    • Don’t reward barking with attention, treats, or letting them outside unless they are quiet.

    Step 3: Teach the “Quiet” command

    • Let your dog bark a few times, then calmly say “Quiet” in a firm but gentle voice.
    • Wait for them to stop barking, even if just for a second.
    • Immediately reward with a treat and praise (“Good quiet!”).
    • Repeat consistently, gradually increasing the time they must stay quiet before rewarding.

    Step 4: Redirect their energy

    • Give your dog something else to do, like playing with a toy or performing a command like “Sit” or “Down”.
    • Exercise your dog regularly to burn off excess energy.

    Step 5: Remove or reduce triggers

    • If they bark at people outside: Close curtains, use frosted windows, or block their view.
    • If they bark from boredom: Increase exercise and mental stimulation with puzzles and interactive toys.
    • If they bark when left alone: Try desensitisation, leaving for short periods, and gradually increasing time away.

    Step 6: Use desensitisation for specific triggers

    • If your dog barks at doorbells, play a recording of the sound at a low volume and reward calm behaviour.
    • If they bark at other dogs, expose them slowly at a distance, rewarding quiet responses.

    Step 7: Try a “Speak” and “Quiet” combo

    1. Teach your dog to bark on command ("Speak").
    2. Once they understand that, teach them "Quiet" by rewarding silence after barking.

    Step 8: Use a timeout (if necessary)

    • If they don’t stop barking after a warning, calmly remove them from the situation (e.g., place them in a quiet room for 1–2 minutes).
    • Avoid making it feel like punishment—just a way to reset.

    Step 9: Stay consistent

    • Ensure everyone in the household follows the same rules.
    • Reward good behaviour consistently.

    Step 10: Consider professional help (if needed)

    • If the barking is due to separation anxiety or fear-based aggression, a professional trainer or behaviourist may be helpful.

    I hope this helps! Best of luck!

    Justine Seraphin, BSc (Hons) Animal Behaviour and Welfare

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