How to train my dog properly ?

PhantomCircuit99
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Please tell me how to train a dog to sit to play with someone and not bark always

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jseraphin
jseraphin
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Hi!

Thanks for getting in touch!

Ok - so for training a dog to sit, the best method is using a treat to lure them into the sitting position, and to reward them once they do. Here's a step-by-step guide:

Step 1: Use a treat to lure

  • Hold a treat close to your dog's nose.
  • Slowly move the treat upward and slightly over their head.
  • As they look up, their bottom should naturally lower to the ground.

Step 2: Add the command

  • The moment your dog's bottom touches the ground, say “Sit” in a clear, firm, but friendly voice (you can also add a hand signal to go with it).

Step 3: Reward and praise

  • Immediately reward them with the treat and verbal praise like “Good sit!”
  • Some dogs also respond well to petting or enthusiastic encouragement.

Step 4: Repeat and reinforce

  • Practice multiple times in short sessions (5–10 minutes).
  • Gradually phase out the treat by rewarding only every few times.
  • Try practicing in different locations to reinforce the command in various situations.

It's the easiest trick to teach!

Now for barking, it's a little more complicated. Barking is a natural behaviour in dogs but excessive barking can be an issue. Here's what you need to do if you feel your dog is barking too much:

Step 1: Identify the trigger

Dogs bark for different reasons, such as:

  • Alert barking (at people, noises, or animals)
  • Attention-seeking barking
  • Boredom or loneliness
  • Fear or anxiety
  • Excitement barking

Understanding the reason helps determine the best solution.

Step 2: Avoid reinforcing barking

  • Don’t yell; this may sound like barking to your dog and encourage them.
  • Don’t reward barking with attention, treats, or letting them outside unless they are quiet.

Step 3: Teach the “Quiet” command

  • Let your dog bark a few times, then calmly say “Quiet” in a firm but gentle voice.
  • Wait for them to stop barking, even if just for a second.
  • Immediately reward with a treat and praise (“Good quiet!”).
  • Repeat consistently, gradually increasing the time they must stay quiet before rewarding.

Step 4: Redirect their energy

  • Give your dog something else to do, like playing with a toy or performing a command like “Sit” or “Down”.
  • Exercise your dog regularly to burn off excess energy.

Step 5: Remove or reduce triggers

  • If they bark at people outside: Close curtains, use frosted windows, or block their view.
  • If they bark from boredom: Increase exercise and mental stimulation with puzzles and interactive toys.
  • If they bark when left alone: Try desensitisation, leaving for short periods, and gradually increasing time away.

Step 6: Use desensitisation for specific triggers

  • If your dog barks at doorbells, play a recording of the sound at a low volume and reward calm behaviour.
  • If they bark at other dogs, expose them slowly at a distance, rewarding quiet responses.

Step 7: Try a “Speak” and “Quiet” combo

  1. Teach your dog to bark on command ("Speak").
  2. Once they understand that, teach them "Quiet" by rewarding silence after barking.

Step 8: Use a timeout (if necessary)

  • If they don’t stop barking after a warning, calmly remove them from the situation (e.g., place them in a quiet room for 1–2 minutes).
  • Avoid making it feel like punishment—just a way to reset.

Step 9: Stay consistent

  • Ensure everyone in the household follows the same rules.
  • Reward good behaviour consistently.

Step 10: Consider professional help (if needed)

  • If the barking is due to separation anxiety or fear-based aggression, a professional trainer or behaviourist may be helpful.

I hope this helps! Best of luck!

Justine Seraphin, BSc (Hons) Animal Behaviour and Welfare

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