Regression: My dog has started toileting in the flat again

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Hi everyone,

I’m having a bit of a problem with my partner's dog.

To give you some background, the dog is over a year old now. He used to live with my partner and her ex. They basically let him do whatever he wanted for months.

The result: the dog is king of the castle. My partner used to baby him a lot, so now he needs loads and loads of attention and has developed quite a few bad habits.

To sort this out, we got in touch with a dog trainer. They gave us some tips on teaching him to be more independent, to stop pulling on the lead, and not to jump up at people... basically, how to be a well-behaved little dog.

They also explained that for the time being, the dog shouldn't be allowed on the sofa or to sleep in the bed. My partner wanted him there, but it drove me mad because he kept waking us up at night (licking our faces, climbing over us...).

For discipline, they suggested giving him a 10-minute 'time-out' in the bathroom after three naughty things in a row.

Since then, things have been improving bit by bit; we’re managing to correct his behaviour and, more importantly, our own. He pulls less and less on the lead, and he doesn't growl anymore when we go near his food bowl...

BUT... of course, there’s a BUT.

Ever since we started following the trainer's methods, the little guy doesn't even bother going to the toilet outside anymore!

- At night while we’re asleep, he wees or poos on the floor.

- During the day if we go out, he wees on the floor or on the sofa.

- He’s becoming more and more destructive when we’re away.

Before we started the training, we didn't have any issues with this at all.

I don’t know what to do....

We’re seeing the trainer again soon, but I’d love some advice before then. Cleaning up dog mess as soon as I wake up isn't exactly a hobby of mine.

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    It's really tough mentally, quite apart from all the naughtiness; we feel like we're constantly having to ignore or scold him. It’s almost like we’re pretending we don’t even have a dog. I really hope things improve soon. Do you think he'll just stop having accidents in the house on his own, or do I need to do something?
    The trainer you’re working with is the best person to advise you on this, as they already know your situation.

    You should definitely have a word with them before the behaviour becomes too ingrained; they might even be able to give you some pointers over the phone.

    In any case, your dog has shown he can adapt well so far, so there’s no reason why you won't be able to sort out this last hurdle. It’s hard work, but you’ll be so glad you stuck with it in the end.

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    What do you think?

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    It’s really taking a toll on us emotionally; on top of all the naughty things he does, it feels like we’re constantly having to either ignore him or tell him off. It’s as if we’re pretending we don’t even have a dog. I really hope the situation improves soon. Do you think he’ll stop messing in the house on his own eventually, or should I be doing something?
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    I probably didn't put that very well. He definitely isn't doing it on purpose, but he is trying to draw your attention to the fact that he’s struggling. These changes aren't easy for him and that’s only natural; he can't talk, so he has no other way to express himself at the moment. He just needs a bit of time to settle in and get used to the new rules.
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    I’m not convinced that a dog toilets indoors thinking, "I’ll do this to get my owners’ attention." That seems like far too complex a thought process for a dog. It’s definitely linked to the fact that he can’t just do as he pleases anymore. But dogs don’t reason like humans. They don’t do things out of spite or to get attention. They just don’t overthink things to that extent. I’d say it’s more like a child who starts wetting the bed again. They aren't doing it to get their parents’ attention; it’s because they’re feeling stressed or unsettled. That’s likely what’s going on with your dog, given all these changes. He used to rule the roost, and now suddenly he’s being put back in his place as the dog. It’s bound to leave him feeling a bit out of sorts, which is perfectly normal. Dogs are basically like children their whole lives. They show very similar behaviours.
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    He’s just trying to get your attention, which is only natural as he can see that things are changing. Don’t clean up in front of him; just ignore him so he learns that his bad behaviour won’t get him anywhere and that you aren’t going to give in. It’ll be tough, but you’ve got to stick with it! ;)
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    And just for good measure, he's gone and done a poo in the living room again because my partner was having a nap....
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    And just for good measure, he's gone and done a poo in the living room again because my partner was having a nap....
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    Today's latest drama: my partner put her dirty washing on the floor for a few minutes and the dog just peed on it right in front of her...
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    He’s a Corgi. We let him off the lead so he can have a good run around; we’ve got two lovely parks nearby and a dog park in the neighbourhood. We try to mix it up so he doesn’t get bored.

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