My dog isn't accepting my new puppy

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Hi everyone,

I’ve had a female Spaniel-Setter cross for over two years now. She’s four years old and we got her from the RSPCA; like many rescues, she has a bit of a troubled past...

My partner and I wanted a second dog, a male of the same Spaniel-Setter cross, and we’ve had him for five days now. He’s two months old and is absolutely full of beans! ;) (We spoke to the vet beforehand and they recommended a male puppy, given her temperament.)

When she’s in the house, she gives him such dirty looks and won't budge from the sofa (I know, I know...). As soon as he comes near to play or even just walks past, she growls at him, and she’s stopped moving around the house like she used to. She’s really on edge. On Sunday evening, she even lunged at him; he wasn't hurt – she just nipped him – but we’re quite scared now.

When we’re out on walks, she just ignores him and moves away as soon as he approaches.

Thanks in advance for any advice or for sharing your own experiences.

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    Oh yes, animals are just like us humans; unfortunately, jealousy is very real among our four-legged friends... but don't worry, everything will get back to normal soon enough, as long as you make sure not to make them feel jealous.
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    She’ll get used to it... you’ve just got to give her time..... She’s been the only dog at your place for two years... and now she’s found herself with another one... You’ll need to keep an eye on them until everything settles down.... Most importantly, you mustn't treat them any differently..... a treat for each of them, and the same goes for strokes and cuddles. When you’re fussing the male, call the female over gently and tell her to come closer, but let her do it on her own terms. In a bit..... they’ll be the best of friends.
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    Well... if you’d asked for advice before getting the puppy, we’d have told you to check if your girl is sociable with other dogs, both outdoors AND at home, and to see how she got on with the pup before taking him. Now that it’s done, I’m not sure – she might be a bit possessive or just not that social. Have you ever had other dogs over at yours before (friends, neighbours, family, or dog sitting)?
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