Puppy howling and barking all night long

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Hi everyone,

My partner and I have adopted a female miniature dachshund called Samoa, who is 2 months old. She has been with us for 4 days now.

We've already started training and play (teaching her to be left alone, the "bed" command, "sit", etc.). She's picking things up quite quickly.

We take her out into the garden regularly to do her business and give her a little treat when she goes outside. On that front, I think things are going pretty well.

But the problem is, nighttime is a nightmare.

Samoa has a bed with a soft mattress, a t-shirt with my scent on it, a blanket and her toys.

After reading lots of articles on various forums and sites to get her house-trained quickly, we put her bed inside a large cardboard box (with the top open) and a puppy pad just in case.

During the day the box is left open and she has no problem going in there.

At night I close the entrance to the box to stop her wandering around the living room (we live in a flat and don't have a separate room where we can shut her away quietly for the night).

She whines, howls and barks all night long!! We’re only getting about 30 minutes to an hour of sleep at a time. It’s starting to get really difficult. We take her out once or twice during the night for toilet breaks (usually at 2am and 4am).

I’ve read plenty of threads saying to leave the box or crate open so she can move around, but that seems to contradict the house-training we're working on. I mean, she might be less stressed if she could wander, but she’d almost certainly have accidents indoors. And as I mentioned, we don't have a closed-off room for the night. Is letting her roam the living room at night really a good idea?

I get the feeling the bed-in-a-box setup doesn't suit her (she's been attacking it for the last two nights, tearing bits off and trying to climb out). What can we do to get some peace and quiet? I know she's only been with us for four nights, but I don't see any improvement (in fact, we're getting less and less sleep).

Thanks in advance for your advice.

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  • J
    Jeremy4716 Icon representing the flag French
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    Hi there! So, here’s the news! Last night, while we were getting the sofa ready for bed, we left Samoa on her own in the dark for several minutes. She didn’t whimper at all! We decided to go and sleep in the bedroom, leaving Samoa in her open cardboard box all night and... it was brilliant! She slept through the ENTIRE night! We were actually the ones who had to wake her up at 4:45 am for a toilet break. Even when we got up at 7:10 am this morning, she was still in her bed! So it really was the box that was stopping her from sleeping soundly. Yes, there were a few accidents even though she was almost house-trained, but she’ll get there soon enough! 😀
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    Leeleebijou
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    One last point before the big moment! Won't it be an issue that she’s been left alone for four nights and now you’re going to sleep on the sofa next to her for a few nights? It might be a bit harder to get her used to being on her own again (compared to if you’d slept near her from the very start), but it’s still better than leaving her in a state of distress at night for any longer. She’s already had four nights of feeling distressed as it is. Those four days might have had an impact, so you’ll need to watch whether Samoa starts to relax and then gradually moves away from you of her own accord, like going to lie down a bit further away, etc. If she’s stuck to you like glue when it’s time for bed, or if she wakes up at the slightest movement and "watches" your every move... it’s because she’s afraid you’re going to leave her. To help her get over that feeling, you need to reassure her and take things very slowly. The only dog I ever let sleep with us on the first night was my most recent one. Before that, like you, I used to think you had to let them "cry it out". This dog never cried; he didn’t sleep on the bed but on the floor nearby (even though he was allowed to). Sometimes he jumps up for a bit but then gets down because he gets too hot. Honestly, he’s the most well-adjusted of all my dogs. We just folded him into our daily routine without following any strict rules, and seeing how well it turned out, I’d never make the mistake of leaving a puppy to cry or isolating them ever again.
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    Kikaah
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    No, I don't think so :)
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    One last thing before the big day! Is it going to be a problem that she was left on her own for four nights and now I’m sleeping on the sofa next to her for a few nights?
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    Leeleebijou
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    Well done for being willing to rethink things 👏 not everyone is capable of doing that :).

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    I’m not taking it the wrong way at all, quite the opposite! :) It’s precisely because I want to avoid making any mistakes that I’m looking for your advice. Tonight, we’re going to sleep on the sofa with Samoa’s box open. We’ll try to reassure her if she starts whimpering (and I'm hoping we’ll have a better night! :)). Thanks for all your advice, I’ll keep you posted on how the night goes!
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    Every puppy I’ve ever had has cried during the night, even when I slept next to them for the first three days.

    That said, I’ve never bothered getting up in the middle of the night to take them out.

    And in any case, they were all toilet trained soon enough.

    Accidents in the house are just part and parcel of the process at the start.

    If you ask me, you’re overthinking this whole business of attachment and bonding.

    A dog needs four things:

    - food and water

    - a bit of affection

    - the chance to have some playtime

    - rules and boundaries.

    Provide them with that and they’ll be bonded to you in no time.

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    Leeleebijou
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    Thanks everyone for your replies :) My partner and I really want to prevent the puppy from developing separation anxiety. That’s why we ignore her from time to time, send her to her bed when she follows us around too much, and we’ve started doing "dummy runs" and leaving her alone for a few minutes at a time. This is all to get her used to being by herself because our schedules won’t allow us to be with her 100% of the time (I’ve taken a week off work for now to be with Samoa). With this in mind, we’ve made some rules: - not getting up when she whines (unless it’s to take her out for a toilet break) - not sleeping with her in the living room - not letting her sleep in our bedroom (she’s actually banned from entering it). I’m worried that sleeping on the sofa or having her in the room with us will reinforce that attachment and hinder the work we’re doing on her independence. However, reading your comments, I’m wondering if we should give it a go. Do you think leaving her alone in the living room with her cardboard box left open would be okay? Even if there are a few accidents, that’s not a huge deal in itself.

    Hi there,

    Actually, by forcing this early separation, you’re creating the very thing you're trying to avoid. A puppy needs an attachment figure in their new home. You’re depriving her of what she needs most; that’s how attachment issues develop—not because you’ve met her needs, but because you’re ignoring them (don't take that the wrong way, I'm not saying you're doing it on purpose 👌, it's probably just based on myths you've heard here and there).

    Without being too "anthropomorphic" about it: people with emotional issues are often those who experienced emotional trauma in childhood, not those who were nurtured and had their needs met from a very young age.

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    There’s no magic formula, but above all, listen to your heart. Your puppy needs to feel safe and secure. Every dog is different. I’m with Joystick on this: talk to her a bit and maybe give her a little stroke. Your presence alone will be a comfort, as will keeping things calm. Personally, I’m against using crates or cardboard boxes! As for the idea of ignoring her fear and distress, I think that’s just cruel.

    Regarding how long it’ll take, that depends, but arm yourself with patience and all your love for this puppy. It’s moments like these that will really build the bond between you and her.

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    Docline
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    Of course. It’s only when you’re faced with each individual, real-life case that you’ll work out what’s right or wrong for THIS puppy.
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