My dog has cancer.

Sleka
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Hi everyone, I wanted to share my story with you all.

My 8-year-old Czechoslovakian Wolfdog, Slevin, started showing symptoms of bloat (GDV) on Wednesday evening before he'd even had his dinner. I rushed him to the emergency vet in Annecy straight away so he could be seen as quickly as possible. The X-rays showed that his stomach was distended but hadn't twisted yet, so the vet gave him an injection to make him sick and empty his stomach. After a few hours of observation and a follow-up X-ray, we were allowed to go home.

The next day, Slev was completely lethargic; he wasn't moving or eating, though he was drinking normally. The vet had warned me this would likely happen and told me not to worry; I just had to keep an eye on him to make sure his tummy didn't swell up any further.

By Friday, he seemed much better and was a lot less tired. He was getting around on his own, was happy to see me, and was even hopping up on the sofa... However, the swelling in his abdomen still hadn't gone down and he was still refusing to eat.

The following morning (Saturday), there was still no change, and he actually seemed worse than the day before, so I took him to our regular vet for a check-up. She was worried by his behaviour and referred me to another clinic for further tests (blood work, ultrasound, etc.) and to have him admitted.

The ultrasound results were worrying; his abdomen was actually distended because it was full of blood. The internal bleeding was caused by a tumour on his spleen which had ruptured.

Slevin had to have an emergency splenectomy (removal of the spleen) last night. The vets drained 3 litres of blood (about 5 and a quarter pints); his haemoglobin levels are down to just 2g/dL, but he survived the surgery and I've just brought him back home.

Right now, he's sleeping next to me, but he's still refusing to eat. I won't have the pathology results for about ten days, but the vet suspects it’s a haemangiosarcoma.

It looks like my poor boy only has a few weeks left to live. There’s still a small chance it could be a benign tumour since they didn't find any metastases in his abdomen or heart during the surgery or on the scan, but apparently, that diagnosis is quite unlikely. I’m trying not to get my hopes up.

I don’t even know how to put my heartbreak into words.

I’m posting my experience so that you can share yours with me too.

Some of you might have advice regarding palliative care or treatments that improved the quality of life for your four-legged friends...

At this stage, I just want to make his end as comfortable as possible; I’d love for him to see the snow and enjoy it one last time.

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    I’d had him for nearly seven years. We shared everything together; he was my son. I’m struggling with so much regret. The vet just told me quite simply that I had to think about putting him to sleep, as the cancer had spread and surgery was impossible at that stage, with the fluid building up.
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    Hello, I had my dog put to sleep three days ago at the vet’s and I just can’t get over it. I’m inconsolable and I have no one to talk to. I feel like a murderer, even though I saw him suffering more and more each day (it was a tumour, prostatic adenocarcinoma). To those of you who love your dogs, I need your help please; I’m going through the worst days of my life. I have his tests and results with me—if someone could explain the cause? The vet clinic just tells me this prostatic tumour was down to bad luck. Thank you.
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    You’re absolutely right, you did your very best for your boy and you were so brave, right until the end for him... He was able to pass away peacefully, in your arms... Thinking of you as well.
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    Sending you so much strength; as many of us here have been through the same thing, we know just how tough it is. You did the very best for your baby.

    My heart goes out to you.

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    Sleka
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    Hello everyone,

    I’m checking in for the very last time.

    I took my little man to the vet yesterday at 5.30pm as planned. Apparently, Slev was suffering from a massive internal haemorrhage again; he was very anaemic and weak, and there was nothing more that could be done except to give him a more comfortable and peaceful end. So, I had to make that awful decision for the second time in my life.

    And my baby fell asleep in my arms.

    I’ve only just finished burying him.

    There are no words to describe my grief.

    My heart goes out to everyone going through something similar, and I wish you all a lot of strength. If one day (whether it’s tomorrow or in six months’ time) anyone wants to share their story, ask for advice, or just needs a bit of support, I’m here.

    Thank you to everyone for being there for me during these painful moments.

    Charlène

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    Good evening

    By now, you’ll likely already be at the vet’s. My thoughts are with you during this awful time; it is the final act of love you can show your companion. Words are never enough to ease the pain. Stay close to him until the very last moment — he will feel your presence.

    My heart goes out to you

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    Sleka
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    I’m really struggling to come to terms with the fact that these are the last few hours I’ll have with him. I’ve managed to get him up onto the bed with me (I had to carry him as he’s got no strength left), and I’m giving him so many cuddles, but it’ll never be enough... I went through something similar with my girl last year and it was heartbreaking—I loved her with all my heart—but this is even worse. He’s my once-in-a-lifetime dog; I have a bond with him that I’ve never had with any of my other pets. Aggie19, the vet can’t come out for a home visit until Thursday afternoon. It doesn’t feel right to leave him like this for another two days. Since his tummy is swollen again, I can tell something is going on; I’m not sure he’ll even make it until then. Thank you all for your support, anyway.
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    Loving them also means knowing when to let them go... and you just feel these things as an owner... when the time is right... I took my big boy to rest in the woods (his favourite walk) an hour before letting him go... he went so peacefully (exhausted by the illness) and I knew straight away it was the best decision.
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    If your vet can come out tomorrow, perhaps you can wait a little while... obviously, provided your little one doesn't seem to be in any pain... 😔

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    I think you’ve made the right decision in letting him go; it’s a true act of love for him, even though it’s a heartbreaking choice to have to make.

    I understand your pain, having been through the same thing myself with each of my pets. My thoughts are with you.

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