My dog has cancer.

Sleka
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Hi everyone, I wanted to share my story with you all.

My 8-year-old Czechoslovakian Wolfdog, Slevin, started showing symptoms of bloat (GDV) on Wednesday evening before he'd even had his dinner. I rushed him to the emergency vet in Annecy straight away so he could be seen as quickly as possible. The X-rays showed that his stomach was distended but hadn't twisted yet, so the vet gave him an injection to make him sick and empty his stomach. After a few hours of observation and a follow-up X-ray, we were allowed to go home.

The next day, Slev was completely lethargic; he wasn't moving or eating, though he was drinking normally. The vet had warned me this would likely happen and told me not to worry; I just had to keep an eye on him to make sure his tummy didn't swell up any further.

By Friday, he seemed much better and was a lot less tired. He was getting around on his own, was happy to see me, and was even hopping up on the sofa... However, the swelling in his abdomen still hadn't gone down and he was still refusing to eat.

The following morning (Saturday), there was still no change, and he actually seemed worse than the day before, so I took him to our regular vet for a check-up. She was worried by his behaviour and referred me to another clinic for further tests (blood work, ultrasound, etc.) and to have him admitted.

The ultrasound results were worrying; his abdomen was actually distended because it was full of blood. The internal bleeding was caused by a tumour on his spleen which had ruptured.

Slevin had to have an emergency splenectomy (removal of the spleen) last night. The vets drained 3 litres of blood (about 5 and a quarter pints); his haemoglobin levels are down to just 2g/dL, but he survived the surgery and I've just brought him back home.

Right now, he's sleeping next to me, but he's still refusing to eat. I won't have the pathology results for about ten days, but the vet suspects it’s a haemangiosarcoma.

It looks like my poor boy only has a few weeks left to live. There’s still a small chance it could be a benign tumour since they didn't find any metastases in his abdomen or heart during the surgery or on the scan, but apparently, that diagnosis is quite unlikely. I’m trying not to get my hopes up.

I don’t even know how to put my heartbreak into words.

I’m posting my experience so that you can share yours with me too.

Some of you might have advice regarding palliative care or treatments that improved the quality of life for your four-legged friends...

At this stage, I just want to make his end as comfortable as possible; I’d love for him to see the snow and enjoy it one last time.

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  • Sleka
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    Inaya Genova, the first vet I saw didn't find anything either and just sent us home. Luckily, I went to see another vet three days later because I felt something really wasn't right, and she believed me and referred me to another clinic for tests. I'm so grateful to her because we "bought" an extra month with our boy and had the time to say goodbye. Even though it never goes quite the way you'd want, it really is important to have that chance to say your goodbyes and try to prepare yourself... I'm so sorry it happened that way for you, I'm sending you lots of strength.
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    I’m so incredibly sorry for you and your girl... It’s always a massive shock when you don’t see it coming. For her to go downhill so quickly in just five days, even though you’d seen the vet and had tests done—there was just no way you could have known. I’m wishing you so much strength for the days ahead. Losing our loyal friends is a truly heartbreaking ordeal.
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    Hi everyone, I came across this forum while trying to make sense of what happened to my girl Ina, my beloved Cane Corso. One morning, Ina was suddenly extremely lethargic and felt cold to the touch. I took her to the vet, but she loves going there so much that she seemed to perk up a bit once we arrived. Her blood tests came back normal, even though I’d mentioned to the vet that she’d been drinking a lot of water. As her white blood cell count was slightly high, he prescribed some antibiotics. She seemed to improve for a bit, but then there were evenings of extreme exhaustion where she didn't want to go out or eat. This lasted for five days; I told myself it was just freezing outside and she was getting older, but that we’d go back to the vet the next day. But the following morning, she was gone... she passed away all alone and I never saw it coming. The post-mortem showed internal bleeding caused by a haemangiosarcoma... I didn't know anything about this disease... I’m absolutely devastated.
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    He's still with you.

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    I love you Django, I miss you terribly. There’s such a huge void in the house—the sound of your footsteps, the way you looked at me, your cuddles with my son, our long walks, and walking by your side with that look in your eyes that said "where are we off to today?" You truly had your place with us, Django; you were a full member of the family through and through. Six and a half years of pure happiness... I so wanted you to stay with me for longer...
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    Thank you, it feels so good to talk to someone who has such a strong bond with their dog. I feel much better thanks to you; you’re helping me so much in my healing process.
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    That’s good to hear, we’ll always be here if you need to talk. Take care, I’ll be thinking of you.

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    A big thank you to slekai for your reply. I read it very carefully and with a heavy heart, but it’s given me some hope. I’ve just come from the vet’s and he had the right words too… Thank you for all the replies, it’s really helping me to start healing.

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    Hi Medmedmiz.

    I’m not sure if I can really help, but as you know, I had to make that same heartbreaking decision to let my baby Slevin go. He fell asleep in my arms on the 17th of November 2020, and it was the hardest day of my life.

    I brought him home when he was just 8 weeks old, back when I was an 18-year-old student. I watched him grow, and I became an adult right by his side. He went everywhere with me—on every holiday, road trip, and hike. We did everything together; we were inseparable. He was the best companion in the world, always the first one there to make me smile when I was down. We really had a unique, special bond that I’ll never find with another dog.

    I’m incredibly grateful for the time I had with him, and yet I can’t help but think about all the time that was stolen from us...

    I still think about him every day and cry quite often (I’m actually crying as I write this message to you).

    We spent our last month together just cuddling; I showered him with love and treats, but it didn’t make things any easier.

    Telling yourself he had a good life helps a little, but it doesn’t take away the heartache, and that empty spot next to the bed is a constant reminder that he’s gone.

    I can’t tell you that everything will be fine or that this is just a phase. Your companion will stay in your heart forever. But it is true that time helps. You cry less and less often, and you start to smile again now and then. As time goes on, I find I’m holding onto the good memories more.

    You will get through this, even though there will be good days and bad days.

    There is one thing I’m sure of, though: never regret your decision. You did it for his sake. Like you, I wish he could have told me if he wanted to stay by my side in pain until the end, or if he wanted to end his suffering. Unfortunately, we can’t know for sure, and it’s our heavy responsibility to make those choices for them. But after all, we always want what’s best for them, and they know that—otherwise, why would they follow us to the ends of the earth?

    You did the right thing. It was for his benefit, not yours; never doubt that.

    I’m a healthcare assistant, and I see people who are ill and at the end of their lives every day. Those suffering from aggressive cancers would all have wanted to pass away in peace if they’d had the choice...

    Loving them also means knowing when to let them go. You stayed with him until the very end and did your best for him; that’s all that matters.

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