Following my mum's recent passing, I've had to look after her cat, Leo, who is 15. I've already got two cats of my own, so I'm simply unable to take in my mother's cat in my small flat. I'm looking to rehome him so he can find a loving home, as I'm desperate to ensure he isn't put down.
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For a 15-year-old cat who’s going to end up in a new home he doesn't know, will he be able to cope?
Put up some notices at the vets; it’s more reliable than social media ads. Will you be getting updates on the cat afterwards? Best of luck.
Hi Centaure,
There are actually retirement homes for cats (whether they're seniors or not, for those whose owners have passed away...). They’re much better than the RSPCA! I’m sending you a link (this one is in Dreux, if you’re in the Paris area). You’ll find the contact details there.
http://www.lechorepublicain.fr/dreux/social/environnement/2016/10/26/a-dreux-les-chats-ont-leur-maison-de-retraite_12128577.html
It’s also important to respect your mother’s wishes regarding her 15-year-old companion.
Best wishes.
Hello,
My heart goes out to you during this difficult time.
You could try getting in touch with a local RSPCA branch or a rescue centre; they do take in older cats, but sadly, they're the hardest ones to rehome. Most people are looking for kittens or young cats, and healthy ones at that. I've been a fosterer myself, so I know how it is. I'm quite elderly now and live in a retirement complex, but I still end up taking in these kinds of cats... for example, Minette belonged to my elderly neighbour who passed away. His family didn't want her, and his grandson, Pierrot, came to me in tears to ask if I'd take her. He still pops round to visit her every now and then. Then there's Fany, who I also have at home; she belonged to a lady who was in hospital for a long time. She'd initially asked me to look after her for a few months, but then she had to move into a care home permanently. So, I adopted her, and Fany and I go and visit the lady at the care home sometimes.
So you see, there are ways to make it work. Have a chat with people where your mum lived... her friends and neighbours might be able to help you.
Keep your chin up and let us know how you get on. Thank you.
You just need to be patient, keep putting up adverts and, if the worst comes to the worst, take him to the RSPCA. I think they have adoption schemes for senior cats. If you’re on social media, try posting some adverts there too. Hang in there!
No, sorry... Luckily I’ve never had that kind of issue myself... You'll have to be patient though, it might take them a few days to get back to you... Maybe try popping into the ones closest to you in person... I'm sure others will be along soon who can give you better advice on the different rescues...
In the meantime, perhaps mention it to your family – cousins, aunts, the kids... or some of your close friends...
