My cat meows as soon as he can't see me – is this normal? What should I do?

H
Haricot72 Icon representing the flag French
Report

Hi everyone,

I adopted a 3-year-old cat from a rescue centre on 14th March at 5pm. He's FIV+. We brought him home and his settling in went brilliantly, except that when it's bedtime or when we go into another room, he suddenly starts meowing his head off.

I’d like to know if there's any way to get him to stop or to get him to sleep at the same time as us?

Translated from French
icon info

The forum content is sometimes translated from another language, and posts may concern countries with different animal laws. Do your research before making any decisions.

Since the forum is translated by AI, the translations may contain errors.

Loading editor

Write your message and upload a photo if you want to! Please remain courteous in your exchanges.

Your post will be visible to all members of the international Wamiz forum.

12 answers
Sort by:
  • Show previous comments
  • K
    Kelinda Icon representing the flag French
    Report

    Same here, it’s completely normal. My cats used to do the same thing; he’s probably just calling out to other cats.

    Don't worry, it’ll stop soon enough once he’s settled in and feels more confident.

    Well done for adopting from a rescue, especially taking on a poorly cat!

    Translated from French
    Blue_Cat
    Blue_cat Icon representing the flag French
    Report
    Hi there, If I’ve understood correctly, you’ve only had this cat for 24 hours. He’s feeling lost in this new and unfamiliar territory; cats are very territorial animals. On top of that, he’s having to deal with humans he doesn't know and has been separated from the cats and people he was familiar with and saw every day. This is extremely stressful for most cats. His meows are cries of distress. He needs time to get used to his new home and his new human companions. Never force any contact; reassure him as much as possible with your voice. Only patience and a gentle approach will help him acclimatise. As for trying to force a cat to sleep at the same time as you, it’s simply impossible. Cats are naturally active in the evening and during parts of the night—it’s just their instinct. Make sure he has toys available at all times and leave dry food out for him 24/7. Strict mealtimes can cause 'food stress', which is completely unnecessary and something this little lad really doesn't need right now. Well done for adopting an adult FIV-positive cat; he’ll return your affection a hundredfold if you can just be patient and gentle with him.
    Translated from French
  • 12 comments out of 12

  • Do you have a question? An experience to share? Create a post on our forum!