My cat has been hiding since I adopted her, what should I do?

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Hi everyone, we adopted a little 18-month-old spayed female on Saturday the 19th. At the rescue centre, she seemed really happy and settled and loved a fuss, but since arriving here she’s been hiding under the furniture. When she’s reachable, I can stroke her and she purrs, but she’s only eaten about 20 bits of dry food since Sunday evening and had a couple of laps from her water bowl (which doesn't seem like much). I should add that she ate under a unit (yes, I gave in and put it right under her nose as I was scared she’d be poorly if she didn't eat anything). She did come out last night to use her litter tray, though. But since this morning, it’s been the same thing—she’s hiding. She’s incredibly affectionate and accepts strokes without any issues but she won't come out. What should I do? Leave her be? Stop going to see her? Should I keep bringing her dry food to where she is or not? I’m a bit lost. Just to clarify, she’s never lived in a real home before; she was found on the street at 8 months old and spent the next 8 months at the shelter with the volunteers and plenty of other cats. Thanks to anyone who replies with advice, I’m just a bit worried. Thank you!

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  • Lilamande
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    Hi there, I think your kitty is really making progress. With a bit more time, she’ll be even more cuddly :) All the best!
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    Yume
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    Hi there, I have a cat who was, and still is, extremely skittish. When I first adopted her, she’d hide under the furniture the second I stood up, although she would let me stroke her and she’d sleep with me. Over time, she stopped being afraid of me standing up, but it took several months before she stopped running to hide whenever I got up from a sitting position. Even now, if I’m running late in the morning and I’m rushing about, she’ll go and hide under a chair. I’ve had her for over three years now, but it’s only in the last few months that she’s started coming into the hallway when I get home. Before then, I’d usually find her under a chair and she wouldn't come out until she heard my voice. I think it’s just down to her personality, really; even though she was picked on by her brothers and sidelined by her mum, she’s never experienced any cruelty from humans and I’ve always been very patient and gentle with her. Hopefully, your little girl will make progress a bit faster than mine did!
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    An update now that it’s been almost a week since the adoption. She’s still in her hiding spot, but she does come out now and then during the day to eat, drink and use the litter tray. Behaviour-wise, she lets me stroke her, she purrs and rolls around on the floor, but I have to stay crouching; as soon as I stand up, she bolts off to hide. She doesn't greet me when I get home from work, but maybe it’s still too early for her to be that relaxed. She’s actually my first cat and I’m a bit lost with her behaviour – do you think it’s normal that she runs out of the room as soon as I arrive? I’m really gentle with her and talk to her like a baby. Thanks for your help!
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    Hi, thanks for your advice, I’ll do my best. Things are starting to look up – she came out last night and ate all her dry food and drank all her water. She shows herself every now and then, but just by poking her little nose out. I’ll keep you posted on how she’s getting on soon.
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    ProvetoJuniorConseil
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    Hi there,

    It’s perfectly normal for your cat to take some time to settle in and feel comfortable. Your home is a completely new environment for her, and she’ll need a bit of time to find her feet. As you mentioned, she’s never lived in a house with a family before, so it’s important to let her explore at her own pace without rushing her. Patience is going to be your best friend here. Try not to force her into cuddles or drag her out of her hiding spot. As she gains more confidence, she’ll eventually start venturing a bit further out.

    To coax her out, you could try using some treats, but always keep things gentle and avoid any sudden movements that might spook her. You can talk to her softly so she gets used to your voice and presence (even from a distance at first). Hand-feeding can also be a great way to bond and build up her trust. Valerian sprays or pheromone diffusers (like Feliway) can also be a great way to help calm her down.

    Some cats will stay hidden for days or even a week or two at the start, only to end up becoming incredibly affectionate pets!

    I hope this helps,

    Jeanne

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