Meowing and "hunting" socks

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Hello, I’ve asked quite a few questions on here before. To recap, Mimi is a stray who came to us five days before she was due to give birth. We were looking to adopt anyway, so we were really happy she turned up. She had three kittens who are now ten weeks old; I’m rehoming two of them in a fortnight and keeping one with its mum. The trouble is, she won’t stop ‘hunting’ clothes—socks, knickers, you name it. She carries them in her mouth and runs around meowing. Then she drops them in my bedroom or near the kittens, yowling really loudly, and she doesn't stop until I acknowledge her or the kittens let her groom them. It’s becoming a real nuisance. I’ve had her spayed, everything went well, I give her the best of everything without worrying about the cost, and she’s a lovely cat. But this habit is awful. The whole house is being woken up in the middle of the night because she’s screaming. In the morning, the place is a tip, clothes are all over the floor, and we can never find our socks.

I’ve reached a point where I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I thought she was doing it because she hadn't been spayed yet, but apparently not. I really wanted to avoid her ending up in a rescue centre; looking after her and the kittens hasn't always been easy. But I’ve reached breaking point now—the noise is constant, all these long chirrups and loud yowls. She’s either calling the kittens or calling me. I know I should be flattered that she’s ‘hunting’ socks for me, and I am, but it’s just too much now.

I’d appreciate any advice or to hear from anyone with a similar experience.

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    Hi there, when she brings you socks, it’s like a trophy for her. It's her way of saying thank you. Although this behaviour is flattering, it can become quite a nuisance day-to-day. This behaviour could also be linked to her being weaned too early, which is often the case with feral cats. Unfortunately, there isn't a one-size-fits-all solution to stop this kind of behaviour... If she doesn't have it already, give her access to the outdoors; it might help her burn off some energy and express her instincts. You could also try to distract her with cat games and toys. Finally, to limit any damage to your things, try to protect your belongings. As much as possible, try to ensure she can't easily get to your clothes so she doesn't end up rooting through your whole wardrobe. Hope this helps, Jeanne. She can go out whenever she likes; sometimes I even take the initiative to let her out myself. I think she’s spent so much time outside (she’s 3 years old) that she has no desire to go out at all anymore. She just sits on the windowsill and doesn’t want to go any further most of the time. I really don’t know what to do.
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    Hi there, I also think her behaviour is down to maternal instinct. Having been spayed while she still had her litter, her hormones have shifted but that behavioural conditioning has stuck around. The socks and knickers are 'food' she’s bringing to you or her kittens, as I assume her milk has dried up by now. She’s just a bit confused by what she’s feeling. In my view, the solution is for her to no longer have the kittens around.
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    Hi there,

    When she brings you socks, she sees them as a trophy. It’s her way of saying thank you. While it’s quite flattering, it can become a bit of a nuisance on a daily basis. This behaviour could also be linked to her being weaned too early, which is often the case with feral cats.

    Unfortunately, there isn’t a fail-safe solution to stop this kind of behaviour... If she doesn't have it already, try giving her access to the outdoors; it might help her burn off some energy and channel her natural instincts. You could also try distracting her with some cat toys and games.

    Finally, to limit any damage to your things, try to keep your clothes out of reach. As much as possible, make sure she can't easily get to your belongings so she doesn't end up turning your whole wardrobe upside down.

    Hope this helps,

    Jeanne

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