Stray cat on my doorstep

Safrane
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Hi everyone,

A lovely black and white cat turned up in my garden a few years ago. He used to just pop in every now and then, but for at least two years now, he’s made himself at home here and hasn’t budged since. We feed him every morning and evening, just like our own cats, with good quality food.

We already have four cats of our own, including a Maine Coon who is very territorial and doesn't accept 'strangers' (other animals) in the house, apart from one little cat we rescued from the garden who is now part of the tribe.

Anyway, back to our stray—his behaviour is quite strange, it's as if he’s devoted his entire life to us. He never leaves the doormat in front of the glass front door and sometimes just stares inside for hours. It makes me feel so sad because he doesn’t seem to have a life of his own; he doesn’t play, go for walks or hunt. He always has his nose pressed against the glass, even though we’ve set up a little outdoor shelter just for him, tucked away with a duvet for the winter. Much to my regret, he won't go near it. It’s like his only goal in life is to live inside the house, but with Chinoock, that’s just not an option as we know exactly how he behaves towards animals he doesn't like.

My husband sometimes tries to treat him because he often has little bumps and scrapes, though we don’t know how he gets them. He’s very thin despite eating well; I have a feeling he isn't exactly young anymore and might have lost his teeth, because he makes sucking noises when he eats. We’ll take him to the vet one day for a full check-up, but he doesn't let you touch him easily.

The problem is, if we ever move house, I wouldn't want to leave him all alone, but what else can we do? Taking him to the RSPCA or a local rescue might mean he’d be put down... anyway, it’s not an issue for the time being.

He’s a tom cat with folded ears; I think that’s a specific breed, but I can’t remember which one.

I just wanted to share his story and see if any of you have had similar experiences, as a stray’s life is a rather sad one.

Take care.

See you soon.

Stray cat on my doorstep

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    Hi there

    Sorry for going off-topic, but he looks so much like my Dobby, who I lost 3 years ago (the expression, markings etc.)... except for the ears, which were "normal"...

    I think the breed name you're looking for is "Scottish Fold", but their ears don't really look like this one's; they're either a new mutation or they've been broken (both of them?)

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    Teemteem
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    Hi there,

    If you ever happen to move house, there’s nothing stopping you from taking him with you. In fact, when moving house, cats have to relearn how to share their territory, so it would be the perfect time to bring him into your home for good. By taking the right steps from the get-go (Feliway, a gradual introduction to the house, treats), you could integrate this kitty with the others.

    Now that is the best and most obvious idea of the year—or at least the month! 😁

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    Safrane
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    I love your term "homeless cat" :) I think it's great that you're looking after this cat; if he stays on your doormat, it's because he likes it there ;) Has he met your other cats yet? Apart from my Maine Coon, the other cats leave him be; they're quite indifferent.
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    I just wanted to share my story. A few days before Christmas, an old cat I’d never seen before was meowing outside my house. He had an ID tattoo (we were really hoping we could get him back to his family for Christmas), so I went out to check on him and he walked straight into my home. He was skin and bone and his paw pads were burnt, I think from the cold, but my cats just ignored him straight away. We took him to the vet, but unfortunately the owners hadn’t updated their contact details. The incredible thing was that he was 18 years old and had come from over 80 miles away! Even my dog, who’s usually very playful, left him in peace. It just goes to show how much animals can surprise us!

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    I love your "homeless cat" term :)

    I think it’s brilliant that you’re looking after this cat; if he’s sticking by your doormat, he clearly likes it there! ;)

    Has he met your other cats yet?

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    Josiane Lobstein
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    I've had something similar happen myself, but we ended up adopting the cat in the end. We tried to rehome him twice, but he had a real knack for finding his way back every time. He must have travelled at least 5 miles each time to get back to us, even when we took him in the car at night, shut in a cardboard box. The cat chooses you, that's just how it goes; if he keeps coming back and has settled in, he might be poorly or too old to fend for himself. Keep feeding him. If he's used to being outside, he won't be unhappy. At the very least, he's got a family giving him the basics. It's not easy, I really do understand. Our one was with us for a long time—14 years.
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    Teemteem
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    Hi there, I’d start with a trip to the vet right away (check if they're microchipped, get them wormed, and check their general health); you can use a humane trap to help you. It would also be a good idea to have a plan for someone to look after them if you ever move house. Do let us know how you get on... personally, I’d be just like you, feeling a bit torn...
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    Stellaieux
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    Hi there, cats will always go wherever they're fed^^ and where they feel most comfortable.

    Out of all the cats I’ve had (about ten in total), two of them actually packed their bags—both gingers, funnily enough^^—to go and eat and sleep at someone else's house. They didn’t want for anything here, but I suppose there must have been something better on offer at those other people's houses ;)

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