Unending grief after the loss of my cat

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Hi everyone, it’s been five months today since my 17-year-old Sammy passed away. I am still heartbroken, and writing to you all again today is making me cry once more. My home feels so empty and sad, and my heart does too. I miss him so much and I don’t want to replace him with another. It’s him I want, but I know that’s just not possible.

I’m looking after my grandson’s cat while he’s on holiday, but it’s just not the same.

Recently, my mum also lost both of her senior cats very suddenly.

Why do we have to go through this heartache when our pets make us so happy, and we make them happy too? And why are others mistreated and miserable?

Life is so unfair and sometimes it feels like it's just not worth living.

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    Hi there,

    My heart goes out to you. Losing a companion who was by your side for 17 years leaves such a huge hole in your life, and it’s completely understandable that you still miss Sammy so much. The love you had for him is irreplaceable, and no one can expect you to just forget him.

    Take all the time you need and treasure all the wonderful memories you have of him. Sending you lots of strength and warmest thoughts during this incredibly difficult time.

    Best wishes,

    Victoire

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    Hi Jocely,

    Your message is very moving. After 17 years together, Sammy wasn't 'just a cat'; he was a member of your family. It is therefore completely normal that his absence leaves a huge void, even several months on.

    Grief doesn't have a timeline. Some people get another companion quickly, while others never feel the need. There is no right or wrong way to grieve.

    I also understand your sense of unfairness. Our pets give us so much love without asking for anything in return, and seeing them go is a difficult ordeal. As for those who are mistreated, it's a heartbreaking reality.

    I just hope that, over time, your memories of Sammy will bring you more smiles than tears. He was lucky to spend 17 years with someone who loved him dearly, and that’s undoubtedly the greatest gift a cat could ever receive.

    Sending you lots of strength. 🐾

    Chatzen 🐾

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