Aggressive cat - what should I do?

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Hello, I'm looking for some advice regarding my cat's behaviour; she's two years old. Since she was a kitten, she's always had a bit of a temperament, meaning everything has to be on her own terms. She went missing in January, and despite all our searching, we couldn't find her. Three weeks ago, we adopted a kitten. Then, last week, a vet in a neighbouring town called us to say they'd found our cat! Since she's been back home, living with the new kitten has been a bit difficult, but I suppose that's normal; they both need time to find their feet, especially since we don't know what happened to her during those seven months. It's also quite tough with us – she bites and scratches. It's not all the time, but she can suddenly lunge at us out of nowhere. I'd really like to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situation. I'm actually scared to stroke her now for fear of her biting or scratching me, but on the other hand, I don't want to push her away and I'd love for her to feel settled and calm again. Any advice would be very welcome, thank you.

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    Hi there,

    Your cat coming back after several months away is a big adjustment, for her as much as for you. It’s likely she needs some time to find her feet again and feel safe once more. Try to go at her pace without forcing any interaction, and make sure she has plenty of spots where she can hide away if she needs to. If the biting and scratching continue or get worse, I’d recommend speaking to your vet. They’ll be able to help you understand this behaviour and support you through this readjustment period.

    Best wishes,

    Victoire

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