Hi 00123456!
I tried to reply to this post yesterday, but I don't think it uploaded properly, so I’m writing it all out again!
Firstly, I’ll try to give you a few pointers and some advice on the best way to handle this tricky situation. Just so you know, no one here is judging you; life happens, and sometimes we find ourselves in situations that feel impossible to manage, and it’s not always obvious how to get through it. I have to admit though, it makes me feel quite sad reading your post, as dogs are such special creatures that bring so much joy and love to their owners.
Are you absolutely sure you want to rehome him? I only ask because the vast majority of problems can be sorted out effectively, quickly, and without spending a fortune by a dog trainer. They can really guide you step-by-step through every stage of living with your dog and clear up any doubts about how to handle him. Plus, they are perfectly capable of teaching him how to stay home alone without any trouble at all!
What’s more, if you speak to a good vet alongside a trainer—someone who can explain his needs and what to do in simple terms—I really don’t think you’ll have any issues! It really just comes down to a few basic bits of knowledge.
However, if your mind is made up, try to contact as many people you trust as possible: parents, relatives, friends, colleagues, and try social media too! Look for a new family among your own contacts and spread the word.
A local rescue or shelter should be the absolute last resort. It’s true that the people working there are wonderful and incredibly dedicated to looking after the dogs, but it’s still a place where he’ll be around lots of other dogs he doesn’t know, and it would be very, very traumatic for him.
Please do give it some proper thought, and just know that we’re always here to help and clear up any questions you might have!
Don’t hesitate to get in touch!
Francesco - Veterinary Assistant
