My puppy won't go to the toilet on the street

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Hi everyone! 😁

So, before I start, I know there are probably plenty of posts similar to mine on this forum, and I've actually started a similar thread myself before.

However, I'd really like some fresh perspectives on this issue, and most importantly, a proper solution.

Basically, my puppy, who is nearly 3 months old, just cannot seem to go to the toilet on the street. And when I say the street, I mean busy areas as well as very quiet spots with almost no one passing by.

He'll only do his business either indoors, on the grass, or when we're walking in parks or out in the countryside.

I think he's getting the hang of house training; when he has an accident inside, I can see it's not just for the fun of it and that he'd prefer to be outside.

The reason I'm posting this is that I'm just shocked by what's just happened with him... Let me explain:

Today, I tried to time it perfectly for when he really needed to go—basically when he starts whining and lowering his little bum to do either a wee or a poo.

After a while, he crouched down to poo. I quickly scooped him up and took him straight out onto the pavement so he could finish off.

I'd braced myself for it to take a bit of time, so mentally, I was ready.

But I honestly don't understand! I stayed outside for 1 hour and 50 minutes without him doing a single poo! Even though—pardon the expression—he was touching cloth at home and was even whining as if to say "Quick, quick, I really need to go."

I just don't get it. While we were out, I tried to stimulate him, I played with him, I got him all worked up like I'd been advised to, but absolutely nothing. I find it unbelievable—he must have sphincters of steel already...

Have any of you ever had a similar problem? How did house training go for you?

Thanks so much for your replies.

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  • Shylvie4
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    From my own experience, Dough has never done his business anywhere but outside on the grass. Mind you, we live out in the sticks! So I don't have the same problem as you. I got him from a breeder where the dogs were kept outdoors; I think he was just used to it that way and never went anywhere else. For him, grass = the toilet... the pavement = ???. Just be patient, he'll get there. I hope you live near a park...
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    Mine never does a wee or a poo on the pavement, and definitely not on tarmac. Don't worry, dogs just do their business where they feel the spot is right. For instance, my girl much prefers going in the grass rather than on the pavement. So even if your dog won't go on tarmac or anything like that, don't worry at all!!!
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    Novanos, please don’t take my comments the wrong way. I’m not trying to cause any upset. You know, we can give you all the pointers in the world and some might work, but nothing beats real-world experience; nothing beats the journey you’re on right now with your dog. Trust yourself, trust your dog, communicate, and move forward together at your own pace. Common sense should always be your guide. You’ll get there. Let your dog feel happy and settled in himself. Look after yourself too, and everything will work out. Sometimes, if you try too hard to do everything perfectly, you end up doing more harm than good. Once again, it’s nothing personal. I’m sorry if I’ve come across as a bit blunt; I’ve noticed I seem to be making people feel a bit uneasy on the forum, so I’ll step back from commenting. Have a lovely day and enjoy your pooch.
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    My 10-month-old dog had the same problem at first; he refused to go on concrete. But after constantly taking him out and walking him around town, he eventually changed. He still avoids going in town if he can help it, but he'll do it when he really needs to! 😂

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    Yes, we all make mistakes 🤣.

    As for pooing on the tarmac, that’ll come when it needs to and your pup has no other choice. In the meantime, the bits of ground around the trees in the street will do just fine.

    A house-trained adult dog won't make themselves ill if they can't find grass, but for a puppy, it's all still a bit confusing. You need to make it easy for him, so keep up the toilet training on the grass (or even just some dirt, that works too).

    Don't stress Novanos, with all the effort you're putting in, things are bound to turn out fine. Enjoy him while he’s still a puppy; it goes by fast, really fast... no need to rush him into growing up too quickly 😉

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    Yes, I was indeed talking about the tarmac, but I know full well that I was asking a bit much by trying to get him to go on the pavement. I feel a bit bad about it; I know it was a mistake, but I suppose it's only natural to make them, and I’ve certainly learned my lesson anyway.

    And just to clarify a few things, it's true that I was really anxious and quite stressed at first about getting things wrong (which is why I was posting so much on the forum a few days ago), but I'm much more relaxed now. I'm just really trying to do my research and ask questions so I can do things the right way and, above all, keep learning.

    Thanks again for all your replies! :)

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    Hi everyone.

    Novanos, I’ve said this before, but take a moment to breathe and, above all, let your dog grow up. You do realise that by overthinking things, you could end up doing more harm than good and creating problems?

    Seriously, Koda had the hang of it by two and a half months and was fully house-trained by four months. (By ‘hang of it’, I mean if I missed the signs that he needed a wee or a poo by the door, but that was rare as he knew how to make himself understood; and by ‘house-trained’, I mean no more accidents from four months onwards.) But even now, with a perfectly house-trained dog, Koda will still look for a little patch of grass on the pavement to do his business. I don’t know any dog that likes tarmac; it’s not natural.

    Reading your posts, you sound quite anxious. Almost hyperactive (I don’t mean that as a criticism); my advice would actually be for you. A bit of meditation or relaxation. Just let go and things will be fine—you both really need to give yourselves a breather.

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    Personally, two of mine never go in the street; it's always on the grass, in the woods... and I find it really handy. For a start, I don't like them peeing on concrete because I think it stinks, and poo is much easier to pick up from the grass. Plus, if we've got a quick errand to run in town or we're passing through a village on a hike, I know they'll wait until we're somewhere a bit more 'nature-y', so I’ve actually encouraged this behaviour. And if they have the runs, it’s much better in the woods than trying to wipe down the pavement!
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    Novanos, when you say "the street", do you actually mean on the tarmac?

    Well, good luck with that! 🤣🤣🤣

    Even now, mine would hold it in for hours rather than go on the tarmac... and if it does happen, they certainly make their feelings known by going right in the middle of the road! 🤣

    The main thing is that your puppy is making progress with toilet training, so if the grass works, then stick with the grass.

    Joking aside, I think it’s a bit much to do that to a puppy who isn’t even three months old... from the moment he gets into position, grabbing him was bound to put him off. It might work for a wee, but not for the rest.

    Once again, stop being in such a HURRY, let the puppy grow up!

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    Anyway, that’s a lovely story too, it really gave me a good laugh and it’s a great comparison. You can really want something, but when you actually get the chance, if you don’t feel comfortable, you're just not going to manage it! 🤷
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