Dog barking when I'm out and angry neighbours

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Hi everyone!

I'm sure this has been covered before, but every situation is different, so I'm putting out a bit of an SOS.

I've just moved into a flat and I have a 5-year-old female Jack Russell.

The problem is she barks whenever I'm out, and apparently it's non-stop; my neighbours are at their wits' end... I'm worried there will be consequences if something doesn't change. She barks when she hears noise in the stairwell, or sometimes for no reason at all (according to them).

I really need this to stop because even when I'm at home and she hears a noise she barks, and it's becoming unbearable for me too, especially at 4am!...

If anyone can help, I'd be so grateful.

Thanks in advance,

Ophélie

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    Perrucheinterne6360 Icon representing the flag French
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    Great !

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    Loloalthap Icon representing the flag French
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    Hi everyone, I have a 9-year-old Yorkie/Cairn cross. I work during the week and when he's home alone, he barks at the slightest noise. My neighbours are getting a bit fed up, and I can't really blame them. It's the same when we run into neighbours around the estate; he goes up to them and barks, then lets them give him a stroke before wandering off. What can I do about the barking, please? I'm not a fan of ultrasonic collars, as I don't want him to feel like he's being punished.
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    Hi there, Your dog is likely barking due to a combination of separation anxiety and being hyper-reactive to noises in the building. To help improve the situation, you could try gradually getting her used to your absences. Start by leaving her for just a few minutes at a time and then slowly build up the duration. At the same time, you can work on desensitising her to sounds from the neighbours by pairing them with something positive, so she stops reacting to them every time. It’s also essential that she’s burning off enough energy. Long walks, scent work, or interactive puzzle toys can help reduce boredom and frustration. Leaving a radio or some soft music on in the background can also help lower her stress levels and drown out any trigger noises. If the barking persists despite your efforts, seeking help from a dog trainer or a pet behaviourist will provide you with more personalised support. Have a good day, Manon
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    Hi, 

    I'm 20, I'm a student and I live in a flat. I've just adopted an 8-month-old puppy from a rescue who can't stand being on her own and barks non-stop whenever I leave. I'm incredibly stressed about the neighbours and the landlord, and I'm worried I won't be able to get her to settle... I just don't know what to do. I can't reward her for being calm when I get back because she isn't calm at all...

    Hi there. You should start your own thread and provide all the relevant details (breed or crossbreed, what made you choose this dog, how long you've had her, her history, how often and what kind of walks she gets, which room you leave her in, etc. etc.).

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    Hi, I’m 20, I’m a student and I live in a flat. I’ve just adopted an 8-month-old puppy from a local rescue who can’t cope with being alone and barks non-stop when I leave. I’m incredibly stressed about the neighbours and my landlord, and I’m worried I won't be able to settle her... I just don't know what to do. I can’t even reward her for being quiet when I come home because she isn’t calm at all…
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    Hi there, I have a 9-month-old Lhasa Apso puppy. I've had him since he was 5 months old. For 4 months now, he's been barking whenever I leave the house, and I've had complaints from the neighbours. I feel like I've tried everything... as a result, I don't go out in the evenings anymore, I just don't dare. I go to work and come straight back, but since the summer ended, I’ve been taking him into work with me to avoid more complaints, which my boss won't put up with for much longer. I tried the exercise where you leave for 5 minutes and then come back, gradually increasing the time. NOTHING. I take him out in the morning and have him running around the park for a good half hour to tire him out. NOTHING. The vet recommended some anti-anxiety meds. It’s a 3-month course and I’m on the first month, but so far: NOTHING. He has a Kong and other toys like that. NOTHING. I leave the radio and the light on if I’m coming home after 5 pm. NOTHING. He has a t-shirt that smells of me... I’m trying to teach him to stay in his bed when I’m at home and want to go into another room, but he just follows me and waits outside the door whining... or even barking the moment he can't see me. The dreaded anti-bark collar... he still whines and scratches and sometimes even manages to bark. I’ve also had a session with a dog trainer... I’ve just bought a wire crate where I’ve put his bed and toys. I'm feeding him in there and for now, I’m leaving the door open so he can get used to the space, hoping he’ll be able to stay in there with the door closed when I go to work... at least until I get back for my lunch break... I’ve still got a plug-in diffuser to try as well... And I’m getting him neutered at the end of January... I’m starting to think he wasn't weaned properly... I really don't know what else to do now.
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    Hi there, I’m a canine behaviourist and I deal with these sorts of issues all the time.

    First and foremost, you need to meet a dog's basic needs: physical exercise, mental stimulation, and chewing, to ensure they are in the right frame of mind.

    Next, you should desensitise the dog to you leaving. Try setting up scenarios where you pretend to head out and then reward them. Gradually increase the amount of time you spend outside the flat (starting with just a few seconds), while your dog is busy tucking into their favourite treats.

    Now, you also need to work on noise desensitisation. I’d start with the doorbell; every time they hear it, give them a reward. I’d even get some friends to help out by walking around the block of flats and making a bit of noise on purpose while you reward the dog. This way, the dog becomes classically conditioned to enjoy these sounds, which were originally causing a lot of stress.

    Finally, I always advise my clients not to give their dogs access to large windows where they can watch everything going on outside, as this just gives them a chance to practise their barking.

    http://www.hmcdogtraining.com/blogue

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    Hi there,

    I had the exact same issue with my Malinois, plus he had a real knack for destroying things...

    Anyway, after seeing a behaviourist (who I’d highly recommend to anyone having trouble with their pet), we put a few measures in place:

    - Position his bed so it’s completely tucked away from the main living areas.

    - Have a pet sitter or dog walker look after him once a week.

    - Plenty of high-energy exercise combined with good play sessions (personally, I do about 4 hours a day).

    - Create a "signal" for indoor play or cuddle sessions using a colourful scarf (which I take off and hide as soon as I’m finished).

    - Stop responding to any demands from the dog (for play, cuddles, food, etc.).

    - One Zylkene capsule every day for a month and a half (Zylkene is a milk protein supplement).

    So, those are just a few examples – not necessarily in the right order – but with a lot of patience, they finally helped settle my boy down during the day.

    I also set up a camera to see what was triggering the howling and barking.

    Strangely enough, Ielo always started barking when he was near or on the sofa... At first, we banned him from trying to get on it at all. Then, we gradually started giving him cuddles, first at the foot of the sofa and then on it, just to help him understand that the sofa is a place for calm and rest. (Obviously, we can’t stop him from jumping up when we’re out, so we might as well teach him the right way to behave on it!)

    Anyway, I hope sharing my experience helps you out...

    Just so you know, my neighbours had to put up with my dog’s howling for nearly a year... Ielo is 17 months old now and behaves like a perfect city dog! :)

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    Wolfman
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    Go and have a look at Joseph Ortega’s website; he’ll help you find a solution quickly, and it won’t cost you a penny.
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    Hello everyone and thanks, I hadn't realised there were so many replies!

    The problem is my dog's hyper-attachment to me, unfortunately. I've followed my vet's advice, which was to ignore her when I get home and before I leave, not to let her sleep with me (though I wasn't doing that anyway), and to buy her enrichment toys, but nothing seems to work... My neighbour came to see me to say that the building management is going to be in touch...

    My dog howls for hours on end without stopping... it’s not even just a bark here and there.

    My vet, who is also a behaviourist, told me that if all these methods don’t work, I’d have to use an anti-bark collar, otherwise I’m at risk of a formal complaint (which is already the case).

    When she barks while I'm at home, she comes out of nowhere, howling and lunging at the door like a rabid dog... I grab her by the scruff (like a mother dog would) and shut her in the bathroom until she calms down. Telling her off doesn't work anymore and I’m exhausted (it’s been like this for 5 years) from shouting and being stressed.

    I don’t know if a "gentle" solution would work... to me, the only fix is for her not to be alone and to have human company, as I suspect that if I got her a doggy friend, she’d just be jealous...

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