Severe puppy blues since he arrived

Go ahead then, see for yourself, my dear...

LOOOOOOOOOL

Just because I wouldn't answer your twisted, insidious question?

I'm not playing your games.

Oh really? So providing information is just showing off, is it?

That's news to me!

What would actually be "vile" is being on a public forum, knowing certain things, and not informing the people reading about these more than shady practices.

Putting people down? No, just hitting back with actual arguments.

As for your opinion that I don't bring much to the table, coming from you that's a compliment (lol).

As you say, Leati, the main thing is that the message has got through to some people ;)

As for you, Claire .................................................

Well no, Axelote, you aren't an outside observer since you're actually getting involved.

I’m talking about the people who never post on the forum but message me privately.

Don't worry about me; my ego wasn't bruised at all by your remarks.

When I said a puppy can't control its bladder or sphincters, I wasn't being aggressive—I was just being logical.

It’s common sense.

A baby, no matter what it is, has to grow up to develop those automatic reflexes.

Where’s the aggression in that?

And I’ll say it again since you clearly didn't get the point: it’s normal for a thread to go off-topic sometimes.

If you don't like that principle, then don't post.

So, if I have something to say on a subject that’s drifted, I’m going to say it.

Yes, I used the term "breeder", and what’s the problem with that? That’s what they are, though in this case, I meant it in the worst sense of the word.

Whether you like it or not, I’m not going to mince my words with certain people, including you.

I reserve that for the people I actually like.

I’m looking at this from an outsider’s perspective, which is why I offered some constructive criticism—though it clearly seems to have bruised your ego.

I don’t have an axe to grind here; you’re just speculating.

I was simply pointing out how aggressively you come across when giving advice.

When we read things like, "@Ptitefleur, you said: 'But peeing and pooing is normal at that age, what did you expect... You’re already cracking after just four days...'"

I feel the same!

It’s like asking a 9-month-old human baby to have full bladder and bowel control!!!!!!!!!"

It’s just judgmental and kicking someone when they’re down. There’s nothing constructive about it; reading between the lines, it’s basically just saying, "Yeah, you're an idiot, and I’m going to rub your nose in it."

Besides, you’ve completely missed the point. If I’ve understood correctly, it wasn’t even about the pup’s toilet habits, but about the fact they could hear him crying and felt terrible trying to force themselves not to go and comfort him.

"The breeder could easily be telling you a load of rubbish.

And just because they’re affectionate with the animal doesn't mean they’re reputable.

There are plenty of 'actors' in the breeding world.

Breeders who say 'I love him, he’s my baby' but ultimately don't care where he ends up as long as they get the sale."

In your first post, you definitely used the word "breeder"...

If you toned down your delivery a bit, you’d actually get more people on board with the cause you’re championing.

And don’t pile onto people who are already struggling, either.

It’s just common courtesy.

You don’t have to keep repeating my words (venom). You’re the real snake here!!!

If I were stalking your profile, I’d be on this forum 24/7, just like you. I actually have a life, which clearly isn't the case for you...

“To be able to attack you better” – LOL!!! Read back what you’ve written and take a long hard look at yourself... though you’re obviously incapable of that, given how small-minded you are.

Mavie (you really should get a life, by the way—it might stop you from constantly spewing venom and stirring up drama...), I don’t think you realise how ridiculous you’re being.

It’s as if you’re stalking my username just so you can have a go at me.

Go on, run along and leave us in peace.

By the way, haven't you had your chamomile tea yet?