Puppy lunging at my face

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Hi everyone,

I've adopted a male French Bulldog x Australian Shepherd cross.

He's biting a lot despite having all the toys he needs.

When he bites, I give him a toy to redirect him to play, but he prefers grabbing my arm, clothes, blankets, etc. I give him a firm "no", but he just gets even more hyper and bites harder. So I tried the "ouch" technique; I was also told to try grabbing his muzzle or the scruff of his neck. These "physical" techniques really bother me as I'm not a violent person, but just saying "no" or "ouch" hasn't been enough so far.

Today, even though I take him out 4 or 5 times for about 10-15 mins each time to let off steam (he doesn't move much outside, even though I try to encourage him), he's been biting constantly. I was on the sofa and he bit my arm hard. I grabbed his muzzle, but once I let go, he tried to go for my face by jumping at me. After that, I tried scruffing him, but it was the same thing—he got even more aggressive and nearly bit my mouth.

The third time, he was super aggressive again. In between these episodes, I put him on the floor to let him do his own thing because I didn't want him near me while he was behaving like that.

I don't know what to do. I'm starting to panic because I'm a woman living alone, and he's a little male with a lot of character whose mother was apparently a bit aggressive too. I'm worried I won't be able to cope or that I'll fail at training him... I don't know if this behaviour is normal at his age (8 weeks and 1 day old). I'm dreading Christmas because he'll be around children... I'm scared for my nieces and nephews who are aged between 1 and 5. I don't want him to nip or hurt them, especially as he's already leaving quite bad tooth marks on me.

Sorry for the long post.

Tomorrow he'll be around an adult female dog. Maybe she'll keep him in line during play and he'll understand?

Thanks,

Mot22

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  • Kimko8618
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    That lady was definitely telling you a load of rubbish! 🤪 With parents like that and at only 6 weeks old, you've certainly got your work cut out for you! I hope she gave you some proper paperwork for the transfer... Before you take him out around other dogs, he needs to be fully vaccinated and have had all his jabs... Be careful with children, too; they’ll be drawn to a little "fluffball" like him, but he won't have any social cues or manners yet... so... 🙅
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    Kikaah
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    The woman who gave him to you was talking absolute rubbish and has completely mismanaged those dogs – what a waste! It’s illegal to rehome a puppy before they’re 8 weeks old, and for good reason. It’s vital that you let him meet some well-balanced dogs who can teach him proper ‘dog language’, because if nothing is done, he’ll really struggle to communicate with other dogs as he grows up.

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    Jean-Yves
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    And if he’s scared when facing another dog, whatever you do, don't stroke him; just let him sort it out for himself as long as he isn't in any danger. Stay calm and relaxed. Stroking a puppy when they’re scared tells them they’re right to be afraid, whereas if he’s scared and sees you’re calm and relaxed, that’s what will reassure him.
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    Julie-Cocker
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    So, is nobody else shocked by this? Your puppy is only 7 weeks old, which is far too young to be rehomed. At that age, he hasn't even learned the most important lessons yet... such as bite inhibition, handling frustration, and dog social cues. He's starting off with a lot of disadvantages that are going to make life difficult for him. Does that mean he hasn't even been microchipped or had his jabs yet?
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    Jean-Yves
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    Normally, bite inhibition is learned through playing with littermates. Since he didn't have the time to learn this, it’s down to you to step in. So, when he nips at you, let out a high-pitched yelp (just like puppies do with each other) so he understands that it hurt. Leave your hand in front of his mouth; if he licks it or turns away, it means he’s got the message. You'll likely have to do this a few times, but he'll soon catch on and learn how to manage his bite.

    And you're right, you absolutely must socialise him and let him meet other dogs, but be careful—he needs well-balanced dogs that won't give him a bad experience.

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    It’s definitely the 2nd of November... The lady worked it all out and told us it was fine. Out of the five puppies, one was even picked up on the Monday. I’ll give the park a go. But I have to travel about 9 miles to get to one, so I just hope there’ll be some pals there for him... is that much of a drive okay for a puppy, or even for a dog when he’s older? (I imagine it’s like anything else, just a matter of getting them used to it.) Thanks.
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    If you don't know anyone with a dog, head to a busy dog park every day and encourage your pup to play with them.

    Only other dogs can really teach a puppy how to be a well-behaved dog.

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    Julie-Cocker
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    So the 2nd of November isn't possible because otherwise he wouldn't even be 2 months old, and that’s against the law :( I hope he's had enough time to learn bite inhibition with his mum and littermates, because otherwise you’re going to really struggle.
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    Thanks everyone. I'm not sure if there are any dog training classes near me and, to be honest, money is a bit tight at the moment. Taking care of him, food, toys, treats, the vet etc., yes, but I'm not sure I can stretch the budget to include training classes.. :/ Anyway, I’ve had him since Thursday. He was born on 2nd November. Apparently, there weren't any problems with the others. We couldn't even see the mum in the end because she was being too aggressive with people visiting, and the owner is planning on getting rid of the dad soon because he doesn't always get on with his son. She didn't tell us any more than that... :/ Thanks guys.
    Maybe she just wanted to protect her babies :/ The mum’s owners don't sound very nice at all, giving the puppies away much too young and getting rid of their dogs... they seem really dodgy. With plenty of patience, things should improve with the puppy; he’s still tiny and there’s still time for him to change ^^ but it’s true that it’ll be tough if he hasn’t been properly socialised.
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    Thanks everyone. As for puppy classes, I'm not sure if there are any near me and my finances don't really allow for it at the moment. Taking care of him—food, toys, treats, the vet etc.—is all fine, but I'm not sure the budget can stretch to training classes as well... :/ Anyway, I've had him since Thursday. He was born on 2nd November. Apparently, there were no issues with the others. We didn't even get to see the mum because she was too aggressive with people coming to visit, and she's planning on getting rid of the dad soon because he doesn't always get on with his son. She didn't tell us any more than that... :/ Thanks again.
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