My puppy is scared of going outside

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Hi everyone,

I’ve had an Australian Shepherd puppy for a week now. As I expected, the move was very stressful for him at first, so he was quite frightened. But for the past few days, he’s finally started coming out of his shell and seems to be at home in my house.

However, it’s a different story when it comes to the outdoors.

Firstly, when it comes to crossing the threshold to go outside, he’s very hesitant at first. Once he’s through, it’s a bit better, but it’s as if he simply doesn’t want to go out; I have to persuade him to come out by calling him and crouching down.

Then, once outside, he sticks right to my feet, circling me with his tail down and sitting in front of me throughout the whole walk. I live in town, so I thought that all the cars and noises were new to him, so it was normal for him to be scared. He’s also frightened of people when he spots them, but when they approach, he’s happy to see them and jumps up at them. He’s also scared of other dogs and barks when he sees one a bit further away.

I called a dog trainer who told me that this wasn’t normal behaviour for a puppy, and that they’re supposed to be adventurous and not show this kind of fear initially. However, I’d rather ask for a second opinion here because I can’t help thinking she might just be saying that so I’ll sign up for a puppy training package with her (not that it’s necessarily a bad idea, but I still wanted to get an outside opinion on my puppy’s behaviour).

In conclusion, is it normal for a puppy to be hesitant and fearful during the first few days, and will it change, or is there really a behavioural issue with my pup?

Sorry for the long message, but I wanted to explain the situation as best as possible.

Thanks, everyone!

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    Thanks again for all your replies, I’m saving this page so I can look back at all your advice.

    Walks are going better and better, and he got to meet loads of different dogs last night and it went really well! I’m keeping up with the socialisation as much as possible, but I’m so relieved :)

    Bye!

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    My take on it:

    I’ve always taken my puppies in the car to countryside spots where there are plenty of other dogs to play with.

    It’s the perfect place for *letting off steam *socialising *building trust between dog and owner: you should make the most of their natural instinct to follow by playing following games, changing your pace and direction, etc. — always off-lead, of course.

    Get into the habit of giving plenty of happy praise for this following and rewarding the "heel" position when they do it naturally (an Aussie does this instinctively).

    It’s once that bond is established through confident following that you can expect the right response to "come", "go", and "wait". Later on, you'll have "go see the dog", "stay", etc. You’ll see, Aussies are brilliant dogs; they’ll check in with their owner for the right instruction and have total faith in their owner’s judgement once those bonds are formed.

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    That Facebook group is a lovely idea for socialising! People in those groups are usually quite dedicated, so there’s less risk of things going wrong.

    (For instance, I wouldn’t go on any puppy meets with mine just now; she’s in a bit of a grumpy phase and only shows respect to her elders.)

    And the Aveyron Gorges are brilliant for a dip with your dog in the summer. I used to know a really cool, sheltered spot further inland (the area is very hilly, mind you) that didn't get too busy. You’re definitely spoilt for choice when it comes to walks in that part of the world!

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    Thanks so much everyone for your replies, it’s really put my mind at rest ;)

    I’ve found a Facebook group and I’ve already got a few meet-ups sorted so my puppy can meet some well-socialised dogs! And tonight’s walk already went better than the last few, so it’s looking promising.

    Thanks again and have a lovely evening :)

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    Oh, Aveyron is absolutely brilliant with a dog! I lived there before I got my girl, and I do miss the area a bit – we would’ve had a whale of a time there. Don’t worry, it’s completely normal. Just try to keep the walkies positive and stay patient. My dog wasn’t exactly keen on the idea of going out at first either; she only seemed to relax as soon as we turned back for home, which did make me wonder. Nowadays, she’s the one scratching at the door in the morning wanting to get out there double-quick! Try to spend a bit of time in the same spots (I mean, don’t just march straight ahead) so he has time to have a good sniff and get his bearings. You’ll see, he’ll come out of his shell sooner than you think (unless he’s just a properly anxious, stubborn one!).
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    Hi there! I can't really give much advice on city walks, other than taking it slow and trying to stick to quieter streets at first. As for the trainer, it sounds like you've got her sussed! 😆 Of course, it’s completely normal for a puppy to be a bit fearful when they're suddenly dropped into a strange, noisy environment... it's only really a concern if it carries on for a few weeks or if they're also skittish at home. That's when you might want to look into getting a behaviourist involved. I'm not in a city centre either, although there’s a fairly busy road right outside my house. But since I live out in a very rural area, I’d take them somewhere quiet in the countryside to see how they react! Mind you, for quick toilet breaks and those first few walks together, you don't really have much choice 😌 Thanks for the replies, that’s reassured me a bit. I’ll hold off for a bit before making a final decision!
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    Hi there,

    I can't really give much advice on city walks, other than suggesting you take things gradually and try to stick to quieter streets for now.

    As for the trainer, it sounds like you've got her figured out! 😆

    It's perfectly normal for a puppy to be a bit nervous when they're suddenly dropped into a strange, noisy environment... it's only if this behaviour lasts for more than a few weeks, or if they're also skittish at home, that you might need to consider seeing a pet behaviourist.

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    Thanks so much for your replies. I’ll wait another week or two and if I don’t see any improvement, I suppose I’ll have to look into getting a dog trainer! But in that case, is it best to keep the pup in their comfort zone as much as possible and wait until they’re settled before pushing things further, or would it be more beneficial to get them out and about to see as much as possible straight away, even if they’re showing signs of fear at first? For instance, taking them in the car to visit family at the weekend.
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    I forgot to mention, but I give him a treat whenever he meets a stranger who strokes him, and also when we get back from our walk.

    He jumps up at me loads during the walk, too.

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