Absolute panic since being spayed

Meliu
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Hi there

My dog, an Australian Shepherd, is 10 months old. She used to be really sociable and would happily go up to people. She was very playful, but for a few weeks now... she’s been scared of everything and everyone... noises in the street, a motorbike or a car going past... She's even scared of my friends coming over to see me at the house, even though she’s known them since she was a tiny puppy.

It’s as if she’s depressed...

As soon as someone arrives at the house, she goes and hides wherever she can... in corners... behind my legs... and most of all, she bolts into the garden, terrified, and hides behind a tree... Even if they try to call her over to reassure her and give her a stroke... it's no use... She wasn't like that with them before... Her fears started after she was spayed (at 6 months old... I don't know if there's a link)... She was so sociable before and always went up to people... She's not playful anymore either... She's only 10 months old... what should I do?

Thanks for your advice

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    Getting your pet neutered or spayed is never something to be taken lightly, as it plays a massive role both physiologically and behaviourally. Testosterone and progesterone are vital to an individual’s emotional state, affecting the brain through specific chemical reactions. In particular, they help to inhibit fear, anxiety, and stress. It’s actually quite common for vets to suggest castrating a so-called "dominant" dog to curb his behaviour. And while it often does the trick, you have to understand the real reason why. It’s simply because the dog loses confidence in his own abilities. From an emotional perspective, it’s not ideal, but it suits the owners because they focus more on what’s visible (the behaviour) than what isn’t (the emotional state, or how the dog feels deep down). In some cases, the chemical reactions triggered by progesterone or testosterone maintain the balance between fear and confidence, and neutering simply shatters that balance. It’s also worth knowing that some Nordic countries have actually banned neutering, as it’s viewed as an infringement on animal welfare and is considered a criminal offence punishable by prison.

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    Hi there, You really need to stop your friends from trying to force their affection on her. If they’re truly kind and sympathetic towards her, the best thing they can do is join you for a walk along some quiet country lanes while completely ignoring her. She needs to get back into the swing of things by sniffing out new trails; the best way to de-stress a dog is to give them the chance to use their nose. The next step also involves scent work; I’m guessing that, like a typical Aussie, she loves chasing her ball. You can hide her favourite ball in a spot that forces her to systematically sniff out the area. You’ll cheer for her victory, of course! There’s nothing better for boosting a dog’s ego than giving them the chance to find a tricky object in under five minutes. And above all, especially at her age, let her enjoy daily meet-ups with her best doggy pals. I expect she’s already made some good friends at the park; for an Aussie under two years old, that’s a thousand times more important than making human friends!
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    Doudou229
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    Hi there and welcome! I totally understand! It’s really unsettling, especially when it happens so suddenly just after the "teenage" phase. It's such a shame she's not playing at only 10 months old 😔. Is there anything else going on health-wise, besides her being spayed? Had you ever left her at the vet's or with anyone else before? Any accidents in the house? When she runs off, does she ever shake herself as if she’s wet? (That’s a sign of stress) which can also happen when she comes across other dogs... Is she eating okay? Not being fussy or turning her nose up at her food? Have you moved house recently? I can’t really see her being spayed causing such a big change in behaviour... Maybe it's worth seeing a good behaviourist? They could assess her on her own and then with you...
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