Hello, or rather good evening everyone, I've come to ask for some advice...
So, my problem, if you can even call it a problem, is that I've just got a little kitten (who is really cute :) ) called Helios, but he just won't stop purring... All the time... Whether I'm stroking him or not... Is this normal? As adorable as he is, having the sound of hair clippers running constantly right by my ear is a bit of a pain... Especially when I'm trying to sleep... Should I stop him from sleeping in the bed with me???
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Yeah, it’s perfectly normal. My cat used to purr all the time—it just means he’s happy and hyper. He’ll start doing it less as time goes on, so don’t worry.
Thanks for your quick and clear replies! I was hoping he'd be a cuddly one and I've certainly got my wish. I love it when he purrs while I'm stroking him, but the thing is, he even does it when he’s about six feet away from me in bed (yes, I’ve got a massive bed! :) ).
Anyway, he’s eating well and playing constantly, so as long as that means he’s happy and healthy, that’s the main thing.
Oh, and the vet confirmed that he definitely isn't deaf. Besides, there are plenty of everyday examples that show he can hear perfectly well—like how he reacts if I raise my voice, or when he hears a loud thud and acts all "brave" by bolting under the sofa! ^^ Even when I get home, he reacts to the sound of my keys in the lock and meows from behind the door (and I have to admit, I absolutely love that!).
Either it’s just his personality and you’ll never change it, or it’s because he’s a bit stressed and still a little nervous since he hasn’t quite settled in at your place yet.
If it’s the latter, it’ll pass.
If it’s the former, he won’t stop, so you’ll either have to put up with it or you won't be able to. If you can't, then it would honestly be better to rehome him with someone who doesn’t mind, or who might even prefer it that way.
Believe it or not, some people can’t stand cats that are too cuddly.
About ten years ago, I spoke to a young woman who told me over the phone that she specifically didn’t want a cuddly cat—she was quite blunt about it.
At the time, I thought it was some kind of bad joke.
But no, she felt that cats are supposed to be independent (which isn't really true anyway) and didn't want to deal with him if he was always affectionate and purring.
So, as far as you’re concerned, wait and see—maybe things will just settle down on their own. :)
By the way, as the kitten is white, if you do keep him, make sure to get the vet to do a hearing test (unless you’re absolutely certain he can hear perfectly well). Quite a few white cats—especially those with blue eyes, like yours—are deaf, which could actually explain the constant purring.
It’s completely normal; all kittens purr (some more loudly than others). Mind you, purring doesn't always mean a cat is happy or feeling good; it can also be a sign that they're feeling unwell. But if nothing has changed in his routine or behaviour, and he's lively, eating well and playing normally, then you’ve got nothing to worry about. When a cat purrs, its brain releases endorphins which has a soothing effect. In your case, I'd imagine your kitten just feels safe and happy with you. Now, when it comes to sleeping with you, it’s entirely up to you. If he’s purring so much that you can’t get to sleep, then put him in another room. On the other hand, if you want to keep him in bed with you, try to avoid talking to him or stroking him, otherwise you'll just get the motor going all over again!
