My kitten keeps suckling on our hands

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Evening all,

We’ve had a new addition to the house for just over a week now: Shadow, who is three and a half months old.

Every evening, he comes and curls up next to us, looks for our hands, and starts suckling. Should we let him carry on?

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    Kassandra32 Icon representing the flag French
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    Hi, I’ve got a 3-month-old kitten who keeps suckling on my fingers and kneading me with her paws. She does it quite a lot and then just falls fast asleep. Should I let her keep doing it?

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    Brilliant! :)

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    Thanks everyone for your advice. For a few days now, following your suggestions, I've been stopping him from suckling. He’s actually starting to ask for it less. I’ll keep going with it then. Thanks again for everything.

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    Instead of your fingers, there are chew toys specially designed for kittens.

    http://www.petstages.com/cats-chewing-menu.html

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    I think we’d all agree that the kitten is clearly craving that comfort, whether he was weaned too early or not. However, I agree with Dellys that you shouldn't encourage him or let him get away with it. Léo, my three-month-old kitten, had a habit of trying to do this and my daughter, thinking it was funny and sweet, encouraged him. For the next few days, he was a total nightmare: the moment he saw our hands, he wanted to suck on our fingers non-stop. We couldn't even stroke him and he was really worked up, like he was in withdrawal. I instinctively decided to stop him and told my daughter not to let him do it, but to distract him with a toy instead or just put him back down on the floor. Now, he doesn't do it anymore, or if he does try, he stops pretty quickly when we say no. It's just like with a kid; you have to encourage them to grow up and become independent, while still being affectionate. It's all about finding the right balance.
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    I agree with Mathieu.
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    I bottle-fed two kittens (they were only 3 weeks old). One of them is 4 months old now and she still suckles on her new owner—specifically their earlobes and eyelids...

    I’m not sure if she’ll grow out of it, but in her case it’s the same as yours; she wasn't weaned by her mum, so she's clearly missing that comfort...

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    This is classic behaviour for a kitten that's been separated from its mum too early, but it's definitely not your fault.

    I have my doubts as to whether he'll ever grow out of the habit.

    Mind you, he is still young.

    In my opinion, it’s really important that you stop him from doing it.

    So, every time he tries, make sure you distract him by throwing a toy or a ball.

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    Hi Daphnee, there’s a good chance they’ll grow out of it eventually. Mine is 8 now and still does it every now and then, even though he stayed with his mum until he was two and a half months old ^^

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