My cat has moved her kittens, she’s meowing and won’t stay with them

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Hi everyone,

So, I’ve been browsing your site/forum for a few days now, and it’s been really helpful for answering some questions I had. But right now, I really need some individual advice.

Here’s the story from the beginning:

Our cat Luna, whom we adopted after she was found at a motorway services, got pregnant. We were supposed to get her spayed, but unfortunately, someone let her out by mistake during her first heat.

Last Tuesday marked 60 days since she’d conceived. On Thursday morning around 3:30 am (just as we were getting back from a night out), she was waiting for us, followed us everywhere, and eventually settled on the bed to have her first contractions. We tried to put her in the spot we’d prepared for her (towels, dim light, a little nook), but she wasn’t having any of it. She spent three hours having contractions almost on my lap. We were surprised because we’d been told that cats look for an isolated spot to give birth. But she seemed anxious and was reassured by my presence, my stroking, etc. At 6:30 am the first baby arrived, then the second and third about fifteen minutes apart. The fourth came an hour later. She looked exhausted, tried to sleep a bit, and with our encouragement, she finally had the fourth and the fifth.

She did everything exactly as she should: broke the sacs, licked the babies so they could breathe, ate the placentas... After a while, we moved her and the babies into a nesting box. She let us touch them without any trouble. I stayed with her all day, and when I tried to go and get something to eat, she meowed at me looking worried, followed me downstairs, and meowed at me very loudly. When I made a move to go back up to the bedroom, she stopped at every step to check I was following. I concluded that she was anxious, scared of being alone with her little ones.

After a while, we ignored her meowing and she eventually went back to her babies. Phew! Especially since we had to go away for the weekend on the Friday evening. When we got back, everything was fine; the 5 babies were in great shape and so was Luna. But every so often, she starts meowing very loudly while looking at us, as if she’s trying to make us understand something. Sometimes she goes out into the garden and leaves her babies (I’m not sure exactly how long for), and sometimes we get the impression she’s panicking. This morning, with the babies being 5 days old, she left them alone and started meowing again.

To make her understand she needed to look after her babies, I picked one up. She meowed at me, grabbed it, and moved it to a different spot. She put it under a bedside table that has a cloth over it reaching down to the floor—as if she wanted to hide it. Then after fifteen minutes, she moved all the babies over there. But then she left them alone. They meow and call for her, but she just comes and meows while looking at me. I’ve checked that she still has milk, and she seemingly does. She has dry food and water available. I also noticed this morning that she had some dried blood on her fur around her vulva. Is it normal for her to still have some discharge 5 days after giving birth?

Sorry for the wall of text, but I really wanted you to know how the birth went, seeing as she didn't act in a typical way from the start. I hope you can give me some information and, above all, reassure me. She’s just gone back to her babies this second; they’re nursing. I’m probably worrying over nothing, but I’d rather do too much than not enough. It’s like she’s having new-mum panic attacks, realising she has 5 babies to look after, getting scared and abandoning them for a bit, before changing her mind later on...

Thanks in advance

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    Hi, I’m writing because I made the mistake of letting my sister’s kittens mix with mine. They’ve only just left and were only here for one evening – during the day they were kept separate from the other cats. But now, when I put my own kittens back in their usual room, they’ve started hissing and growling at each other. They won’t play together anymore… I’ve mopped all the floors, but despite that, they won’t even sleep together. What should I do? The mum is in with the kittens and she didn’t have any reaction at all while they were growling at each other… I’m planning on giving them a bath tomorrow with the same shampoo to see if they’ll start getting along again. I’m honestly gutted, I don't know what to do….. 😢
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    Hi everyone, my cat Mathena has just had five kittens, exactly five days ago now... I have a bit of a question. I’ve got four lovely little kittens that we never hear a peep from, but the fifth one just won’t stop crying day and night... we’re really at our wits’ end, especially as he’s keeping the kids and my partner from sleeping... we just can’t cope anymore... my partner is losing his patience... why is the fifth one, who looks just like his mum, crying all the time? What can we do to stop it? Thanks everyone for your help.
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    Hi everyone, I need some advice. My cat had kittens last Tuesday. I’d put the kittens in a basket with her. Yesterday, I moved the basket with the mum and the kittens to a higher spot in the garage. An hour later, I noticed the kittens were gone ????!!!! The mum is meowing loudly as if she’s lost them, even though she’s the one who moved them herself. I don't know what to do.... I’m trying to follow her to see where they are, but she seems to have lost them! Is that actually possible? What should I do.... I've been looking for two days now. Thanks!!
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    Hi there, My cat Gridou has just had kittens. They’re 15 days old already. There were five to begin with, but three died that same morning. I kept her shut in with the two babies. Then two days ago, I moved them into the garage, which is left open so she can come and go with her kittens. I hid the box they were in under some cardboard. I’ve just got back from my night shift, the garage is a right mess and the kittens have disappeared... has she hidden them somewhere else? Or have they been attacked? I’m so stressed out, the poor things, I don’t know where they are. The mum is here but the kittens aren't...
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    Another question! Basically, I’ve got two cats and they both have kittens. They’re both in the same room. Is it okay to swap the kittens between the mums? I’m asking because my sisters do it sometimes?! I’d really like to know what you think! 😐
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    Hi, my cat had kittens a week ago and she often leaves her two kittens on their own. She basically just lies on the floor by herself and leaves them in the duvet on the floor (it’s a really soft duvet). I’m wondering if she’s just exhausted, but I’m not too sure. Once she’s finished her nap on the floor, she goes back to feed and groom them, but as soon as she’s done, she goes back to the floor again! To be honest, I don’t know much about cats and I’m a bit worried. Thanks for your help!

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    I've got a question – my cat has just given birth, but she’s picked one of the four kittens up and "hidden" it in a cupboard. She’s left the other three behind even though they were only born a few hours ago. Is this normal?
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    Good evening, I’m looking for some advice. My cat had a litter about 8 or 9 months ago. We couldn’t keep the kittens as I’ve already got two cats. For about a month now, she’s been meowing in such a heartbreaking way. Every time she does it, I go to check on her and she’s got a sock in her mouth, carrying it around while crying (I call it crying because it’s really not a normal meow). She does it all day long and I’m constantly picking up socks from all over the house — she gets them out of drawers and the washing baskets... I’m wondering if carrying the socks reminds her of her kittens? Is that possible? Thanks for your help. Simone
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    Hi, I need some help. My cat, Grisette, has had three little kittens; they were living in a small ditch in my garden. Everything was going fine until the other day when it started bucketing down. The kittens weren't very well-protected and got soaking wet, so I put a small wooden board over them to keep them dry. The next day, when I went to check on them, they were gone. I’ve been watching my cat, but she’s just been eating and hunting like normal. Where are my kittens? Is she still looking after them? Please don't ask for help on this THREAD, start your own and that's that!!!
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    Hi everyone, I need some help. My cat, Grisette, has had three little kittens and they were living in a small ditch in my garden. Everything was going fine until it rained really heavily one day. The kittens weren't very well sheltered and were soaking wet, so I put a small plank of wood over them to protect them. The next day, when I went to see them, they were gone. I've been watching my cat but she’s just eating and hunting as normal.

    Where are my kittens? Is she still looking after them?

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