My cat has been peeing everywhere since she was spayed

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Hello,

I apologise in advance for the length of this message, but I feel like every little detail is important!

To give you some context, I've lived with my boyfriend in a 65-square-metre flat for a year and a half, and we've always had our two cats with us:

Moustache, who's 2 and was neutered when he was 6 months old, and Nestea, his little sister who is 18 months old. She was spayed on the 5th of April this year, and the two of them get on brilliantly.

Moustache has never done his business outside the litter tray, and as for Nestea, she had some tummy troubles at the start, but a trip to the vet sorted that out and she's been fine ever since.

EXCEPT since she was spayed. On the 5th of April, I took her to the vet to be spayed and have her ID tattoo done. I've been back twice since then (the 8th and 15th of April).

Since that famous 8th of April, Nestea urinated three times in the same day on my bedsheets, a few days later on the floor next to our shoes, the next day INSIDE the shoes, yesterday I caught her at it again on my shoes, and today it’s the same story! Not forgetting the time she peed under the dining table.

When I catch Nestea peeing, her punishment is to be shut in the bathroom (where her litter tray is) for 30 minutes, and she doesn't get her evening treats. (I have a system: 1 day without being naughty = 1 treat in the evening).

The problem is that, until now, Nestea was perfectly house-trained! I don't want to have to rely on 'miracle' products or herbs; would you have any idea why she’s doing this?

If it helps, here is some more information:

It is definitely urine, not territorial marking.

We haven't changed any products (washing powder, litter, etc.).

They are very pampered and have plenty of toys, as well as things to scratch and sleep on.

My boyfriend is a landscaper, so his clothes often smell of various things, but the cats are used to it and his work boots stay outside.

Otherwise, our shoes are all kept together in the same place (in a DIY shoe rack).

We're moving house in 2 weeks BUT no boxes have been packed yet, and even though the move has been planned for months, it wasn't official when she started peeing everywhere.

I've been at home more often recently.

I’m quite a 'stressed' person, but for over a month now this has been much better (so my babies should be feeling less stress from me).

I’m not as fond of the flat we're moving to as I am of this one.

Also, I’ve always lived with cats and I love spoiling these little fur babies, and this is the first time I've dealt with this problem. However, Moustache and Nestea's mum had a real personality and was the type to pee wherever she felt like it.

Please help me understand her...

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  • kyky
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    Back from the vet! She hasn’t got cystitis, it’s just anxiety from the two days she spent there plus another appointment that’s stressed her out. She’s got some “calming” tablets to take and I’ve finally opted for a pheromone diffuser... Thanks for your help! Did it work or not? Need an update please
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    Lamèremichelle
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    It definitely sounds more like stress... I agree, having them pee everywhere is really unpleasant from our point of view, but in her cat world, it’s more about re-establishing her scent. If the trip to the vet involved other things too—being in a carrier, the car ride, and so on—it’s a lot to take in if she isn’t used to it! Cats, just like children, learn best when they’re having fun! ...and in small steps... Just be glad she’s back home and healthy. She’ll get over it.
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    Hi Marianne, Make sure to spend some time playing with your cat—and your other cats too. It creates a bond that will help her relax (and you as well, for that matter). It’ll also help you get to know her better and will probably make it easier to tell if she’s just being a bit fussy. Don’t push things too far, though, as she’s only just been spayed. It’s up to you to find what she enjoys: a bit of string, a ball, a cotton bud, a bit of crumpled-up kitchen foil... And don’t be afraid to get down on all fours to be at their level. Best regards
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    Yume
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    That’s good news if she hasn’t got any health issues, I hope things get better soon.
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    Yume
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    That’s good to hear she has no health issues, I hope things improve soon.
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    M
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    Back from the vet!

    She hasn't got cystitis, it’s just the anxiety from spending those two days there plus another appointment that’s stressed her out. She’s been given some "calming tablets" to take and I’ve finally opted for a pheromone diffuser..

    Thanks for your help!

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    Blue_Cat
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    Hi again,

    Blood isn’t always a given with cystitis, especially if it’s idiopathic. Doing a full wee doesn’t necessarily mean she’s in the clear, either. Eventually, the bladder gets so full that it has to empty, even if it’s painful for her.

    You’re doing the right thing taking her to the vet.

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    M
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    Hi, Thanks for your reply! I thought of that as well, but there’s no sign of blood when she wees, and she’s passing a normal amount, not just a little dribble. I’ve already been to the vet with her three times this month, and even though she doesn't mind the car ride, it’s still a 30-minute round trip. I’m worried that going back there might stress her out even more, especially since she’s got a similar journey ahead for the move in two weeks... Still, if she’s unwell, I’d rather get her sorted as soon as possible! I’ll contact my vet on Monday, thanks a lot!
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    Blue_Cat
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    Hi there,

    There’s absolutely no point in punishing Nestea; she won’t understand and it’ll only make her more stressed.

    What you’ve described sounds very much like cystitis to me. She’s in pain when she pees and has associated that pain with her litter tray. She’s now looking for other places to go, preferably somewhere that smells of you because it makes her feel safe. A lot of cystitis cases are idiopathic, meaning there isn’t always a purely physical cause. It definitely needs treating, though, because it’s really painful when they go (just like with humans). I think a trip to the vet is a must so she can get sorted out quickly.

    Of course, this is just a suggestion—I’m not a vet myself.

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