How to cope after running over my cat

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We rescued a kitten in July, just a few days before our wedding. She was in a bad way—starving and riddled with fleas and ticks. We found out she’d been wandering around the village for several weeks. We decided to keep her, treated her for fleas, fed her up... then her condition took a turn for the worse and she started bleeding. One morning, we found a stillborn kitten. We rushed her to the vet; the six-month-old kitten was pregnant and had a severe uterine infection. The vet performed a full hysterectomy. She recovered slowly and was then treated for a bad case of ear mites. Finally, everything was back on track and she was really starting to get her strength back.

Then yesterday, I was coming home from the school run with the kids. I was driving carefully, but then my eldest son got out of the car and told me the cat was scaring him. I got out too and saw the horror of it!

My cat was lying on the ground with blood around her head, but there were no visible marks from being run over; she just looked like she was lying there, but lifeless. I didn't see her coming, I didn't feel a thing! She was so full of life, a real fighter. Together, we’d fought so hard to save her, and just as everything was finally going well—she’d put on weight, was looking beautiful and had found her zest for life again—I’m the one who took her life away. I feel absolutely terrible. Sorry for such a long post, but I just needed to get it out.

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  • Jessicat
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    I have an uncle who once had a litter of kittens from his old cat. They were scampering all over the house, and one of them had the bad luck of taking a nap on the stairs... My uncle was carrying his baby granddaughter down the stairs when he stepped on the kitten. He couldn't pull back in time, otherwise he would have lost his balance and tumbled down the steps with the baby in his arms. He ended up crushing the kitten underfoot... It took him months to get over it and he ended up on anti-anxiety meds because he felt so guilty, sensitive as he is. He’s grieved now, but he still blames himself. Accidents happen in the blink of an eye; it’s sadly quite common. Beating yourself up won't bring the cat back, and it wasn't your fault... Just give your other cat (I think you mentioned there were two?) the best life possible, and maybe try to make sure they aren't outside when you’re taking the car out, if you can... Stay strong 😔
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    Mandy1
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    I tried to edit a post, but I couldn't manage it!

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    Mandy1
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    This is always my biggest fear! It’s not your fault, stay strong! It’s just the tragic fate of our little furry friends sometimes.
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    That's always my biggest fear! Stay strong, it's not your fault... it's just fate, and sometimes it's tragic. Thinking of this little kitty!
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    Jbilna
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    Hang in there!

    The same thing happened to our neighbour, she was absolutely devastated!

    These things do happen, and even though it’s heartbreaking, please don’t beat yourself up too much. We can’t control everything.

    Stay strong

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