Anti-meow spray collars

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Hi everyone,

Before anyone jumps down my throat, please read what I’ve written below and keep an open mind. I’m just looking for some feedback from people who have been through this.

I have two cats, and one of them, Dagon, meows at night the second I make even the slightest movement. They sleep in the garage, but Dagon picks up every noise I make—even when I’m just tossing and turning under my duvet; he clearly has very sharp hearing. He is incredibly clingy both day and night, so he’s meowing for my attention, not because he’s hungry, thirsty, wants to play, or has a dirty litter tray, etc.

This has been a total nightmare for seven years now. I can’t even sleep in my own bedroom anymore because it’s too close to the garage (I’ve been sleeping on the sofa in the living room), and I’m constantly on edge dreading the next meow, which stops me from sleeping.

I’m at my wits' end not being able to sleep where or when I want in my own house, or even having a private life because of the stress these meows cause me!

I should also mention they are very well looked after. They have specific dry food suited to their needs (Dagon is a big lad at 7.5kg, which is about 1 stone 2 lbs), mixed with some cooked courgettes. They have a garden to play in, and I give them plenty of cuddles when I can. They don’t sleep with me, and they never will, as I believe a person has the right to their peace and quiet and their own space at times.

So, my question is:

Have any of you tried anti-meow collars? Or perhaps anti-bark collars for small dogs used on cats? If so, which ones, and can you give me some details? I am strictly talking about spray collars; I have no intention of using electric or static shock collars. The goal is simply to put it on him at night so I can finally move back into my bedroom, where I haven’t slept for nearly two years now. I’ll try every possible solution before even thinking about rehoming him!

Thanks for your kindness and for sharing your stories :) If you’re just here to criticise (like calling me a bad owner or telling me to use earplugs, that sort of nonsense), please don't waste your time.

Robrom

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    What about building him an outdoor run for him to sleep in? Fully enclosed, obviously. Otherwise, I’m not really a fan of anti-meowing collars (the ones with a spray or other systems) for cats. Even if it’s a spray rather than a shock, personally, I find it just as cruel as an electric collar... Can't he just sleep in the living room? In terms of the noise, would you still hear him as much? Regarding food, I’ve inherited a cat that weighs just over 16.5 lbs (we weighed him recently). And I can tell you that just because they weigh that much, it doesn't mean they’re healthy (in terms of being properly nourished). Since you've brought it up, what exactly are you feeding your cat? Well, you can stop with the courgettes for a start... What else?
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    I don’t see why it’s not possible to just sleep with earplugs? Why should the animal be the one to adapt and not us? Especially since they’re trying to tell you something, they’re communicating... Honestly, you’d practically gag them if you could, wouldn’t you? It works both ways!
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    So... it seems you’re trying to treat the symptoms without addressing the actual root cause. You’ve gone into great detail about your cat’s annoying behaviour, claiming he’s food-obsessed and has a psychological issue, but in the end, all you really seem to care about is getting him to stop meowing... You really need to take a long, hard look at your own approach here. For a start, and it would be a good start, you should stop feeding this cat dry food (which brand?) and courgettes. Just because he’s overweight doesn't mean he’s well-nourished—quite the opposite, in fact. An animal can be obese and still be malnourished. As for the constant meowing, there’s no way to stop it through force; you have to understand the underlying causes before you can act accordingly.
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    Hi there, we’re getting a bit sidetracked... As I said before! Leave an item of clothing with your scent on it! That might just stop the meowing a bit! Good luck... 😉

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    Try reading the thread properly, Sevv; I never once mentioned anything about using anything electrical. But you’re so desperate to paint everyone else as an animal abuser that you just can't help yourself, even when that isn't the case at all. Thankfully, there are other people on this forum who are more well-meaning than you. And thank heavens you've told me that if my cat is miaowing, it’s for a reason. I must be thick, because after seven years, I clearly hadn't figured that out (heavy irony intended); I know perfectly well what the reason is, but I’m not letting them sleep in my bedroom, just as you wouldn't sleep in the same bed as your children, I’d have thought. The point of this post is to find a way to stop him miaowing (because there's only one of them who makes a fuss about everything) every time I move during the night. So, suggesting earplugs isn't a helpful answer.
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    Thanks! :)
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    Good luck! ^^
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    Yes, give it a go and let us know how you get on!

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    Yes, I’ll give it a go. Honestly, I just want to be able to sleep without being disturbed, or without that constant dread of being woken up. So I’m going to try it. Thanks!
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    I agree with Angéline56! You could also try leaving an item of your clothing with them so they have your scent! :)
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